FDA ENGLISH V students in Mr. Jordan/Ms. Thompson's class tackle a wide array of topics/questions that correspond with world literature, current events and daily life to help promote critical thinking and responsive writing techniques.
Sunday, September 19, 2010
TEENAGE LOVE
Do you believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love? Why/why not?
Could teenage love really be like adult love? I doubt it. I mean first of all look at the teenagers in my generation, I could sum up most of them in simply one word " immature". These days teens don't want toact their age. I am not trying to sexist or anything but serious most girls out there would make an issue out of the simplest. For example if a girl sees her boyfriend looking at another girl- take note just looking- it becomes such a big issue. " ohh you think I an not good enough for you no more" , "is she the one you have texting?" , " you don't love me anymore" and this is the one I personally like the most " what do you see in her that you don't see in me?" these ate the words us boys tend to here just for looking and not even admiring God's beautiful creation.
The next issue is the way we address each other. Nowerdays a young lady is given the name of a female dog. I mean serious who would want to have a relationship with a female dog. The crazy thing is that the teen girls seem to like it because they also call each other using that same word. Us boys are called niggers. Some of our ancestors died for us not to be called in that manner -sorry for being racist- by the white people. However here we disgracing ourselves ad a people.
Thirdly and finally most teens don't know what love is. Love is patient, love kind. Love is blind and love is not jealous. Most teens claim to be in love/are in relationships just to be seen in the community.Most girls ( and even older women to a certain extent) are in relationships just for the money. I mean there is no romance without finance, however women tend make the finance part their priority. And not to lie, us as boys also don't know what love is , in most cases we just date girls just to certisfy out our sexual pleasures.
Not to just attack the young girls. Even older women have their " problems". I personally have realized that women like to put most if not all the blame on man. For example ( most probably you have heard this one a lot), a women is cheating on a man and she further claims that it's the MAN's fault that SHE is cheating.
I hereby conclude by saying teenagers can't experience the same love as adults.
Jameira Young Teenage love is a very strong topic. I myself never really experienced it. I believe that it makes a lot of teens stressful. Teenage love can also be a controversial. Parents may disagree with the idea of love for their child period! Teenage love is a powerful topic it may cause fights in the future. Teen love can be just as real as adults love if so maybe even stronger. Reason being is because teens have long relationships that can be longer than adults and they learn more and enjoy their partners company. Some kids aren’t ready for teen love it can cause them to be depressing. Also the teens and parents may not really know the meaning of love and they might cause heartbreaks by saying it to various people. Some reasons for teenage love is they find it in their teen life because they don’t feel loved at home. Teenagers may do drastic things to feel loved disgrace their bodies. • Take abuse from their boyfriends or girlfriends. Date older men or women to feel like someone cares for them. Teenage love and adult love has problems. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re in love. Teenage love can be as real as adult love because teens can get a job and provide for their lover. They can also live together (if their parents allow them). Teenage love can also be healthy in different ways. I think teenage love is not really a problem. So I think teenage love and adult love is both just as real. Love in my opinion cannot be fake. Many teens make mistakes by saying I love you to early and then regret it later on in the relationship!. So basically love is love if someone says they love you enjoy it and be grateful with the strong words that’s coming out of he or she’s mouth. It shouldn’t be any issues when teens say I love you to another teen if that’s how they feel then so be it. So to conclude yes teen love is just as real as adults
Christal Dewberry Teenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teens are still young and they don’t know what they want yet. It’s similar to picking out careers or what you want to be when you grow up. You examine the careers that are out there. You then look into the careers that interest you or you still unsure of what the career you want to have. It’s just like relationship. You find a guy/ girl that interest you however, at this time you’re not looking in about 5 or 10 years of how your relationship going to be like. Most teen relationship focuses on the present not the future. I’m not saying teens can’t “like” each other because teens can and they going through the stage of seeing a person more as a friend or boyfriend/girlfriend material. However, teen love is just a practice of how relationships are in the real world. Some relationship will last more than others. Some teens in this generation are immature. This tells parents that some teens are not responsible enough to not even date a person yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are very overprotective of their children. They still see us as little kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year old in high school. Some teenage love end up like an adult relationship meaning teens talk about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc most time without the parent knowing. This is another reason why parents think teenage love like adult love is wrong. The ending of a teenage love relationships give the signal that parents don’t want their children being in a relationship. The “break-up” of the relationship usually involve cursing, depression, anger, etc. This show that the relationship wasn’t about love. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that has been use in relationship to please the partner or brag about it to your friends saying that you’re in a relationship to make yourself look better by your friend eyes. If you really love that person, you wouldn’t do anything to hurt them verbally, physically or mentally. Some teens want to be in this relationship because they don’t feel love and they look for love in the wrong places. They think that the partner love them and then in the end, they may regret being with that person because of different reasons. The most known reasons are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quickly, etc. In conclusion, teenage love is not as real as adult love. Teens wait until you say “I’m in love” and at the end you going to regret it probably for the rest of your life.
Yes I agree that teenage love is the same as adult love. The reason why I agree is because love is just a strong feeling .People fall in love at many stages. Its different levels of love but. Love is one word and is equal weather you are young or old. Teenage hormones are to as running wild and this is very much the case. Teenage is a confusing place to be because you are not old enough to be called mature and you are not too young to be called a child. It’s the same thing with adult they had to go threw teenage love to get to adult love. That the reason why I said it’s all the Same. With the modern world, more and more teens are making choices when it comes to sex just the same as adults do. Teen have the same love problems as adults have. Love at adult and teenage rate is just the same. My opinion love is a strong feeling about your mate. Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way. Most teenager relationships doesn’t last longer than adults because teenagers are not strong like adults and not smart enough to let petty stuff get between their love.Most teens fall in love to fast.One minute it would be "i love you" and then they will regret it.Thats my reason why i say that teenage love is the same as adults.
Nigel Cyril No, why you ask? Because teenaged loves have its limits, Adults are pretty much limitless. They are not tied down by parents or school; they also aren’t tied down by sudden pregnancies. If a teenage love is true it can sometimes be cut down by the parents (if they choose so). To me, teenage love can never really meet the standards of adult love. So rules are in teenage love, but adult love can be endless. Another thing is the difference is long distance love. Picture both an adult and teen lovers trying to contact each other from across the country or globe. If a teenage wanted to try to visit or stay with their true love, a percentage of parents would definitely not allow it since probably they don’t want their son/daughter over seas to someone they don’t know or a stranger in their house. Adult love is only the slight same thing; adults are able to visit their love without permission with a parent due to being over the age of 18. Teenage love also has its benefits though; I believe that teenage love couples are more compatible then adult couples (without eHarmony). Teenaged couples can also decide on what they want to learn in school together, or just drop out (bad idea). Adult love can be difficult if both lovers’ jobs are working long hours or one works in the morning and one works at night. Another thing can also lead into a Mr. and Mrs. Smith thing if both of their jobs are rivals, but is still believe teenage love is less real then adult love due to its down factors.
I believe that teenage love could possibly be equal to adult love, but not in this generation. Nowadays, the word love is thrown around like a ball. People use it as if it has no real meaning. What people don't know is that the word "love" is actually a very strong and powerful word. believe it or not, love can make people do crazy things. Being a teenager myself, i know that teens are known to get really caught up in the moment when it comes to relationships and such. Love is a very strong feeling, but the only reason most teens say that they're in love is because they've never felt such strong feelings for a person. But when they realize that their romantic feelings are stronger than they have been before, they just assume its love. Adults and teens may have similar problems sometimes, but there is a serous difference between an adult and a teen. Most of the time, adults base their attraction to on another on something on more of a physical level. Teens should not be basing their attractions on anything past the physical appearance of the face, but unfortunately we have teens who are way past that. I believe that you can't possibly love someone else if you don't have the self respect to love yourself. I myself am in a relationship where the feelings are way stronger than usual, and i find myself thinking of that person ALL the time. Luckily for me, the feeling is mutual. There really isn't even a physical level my relationship is on beyond hand-holding and the occasional arm around the shoulder or waist. I do exchange "I love you's" with my significant other, because I feel like he really does love me, and I do feel if i let my feelings develop more it could be love. But back to the topic, the teens in my generation aren't mature enough for love, although you get the occasional few who don't still belong in 2nd grade. And even adults have changed their standards when it comes to love. People will love just about anyone nowadays. So in conclusion, I do not think that teen love is as real as adult love. However I do think that teen love is just a minimized version of adult love 70 or 80 times less powerful.
Teenage Love… it’s a complicated subject. I would have to say that I don’t think that teenage love is the same as adult love. When you’re a teenager you’re easily influenced by all kinds of things. I don’t think that teenagers really know what love is. I think they know what strong feelings are and they confuse that with love. Strong feelings and love are two very different things. When you meet someone, as a teenager odds are you aren’t going to keep in contact when you are an adult. Most likely you will forget about this person as soon as you finish college. You may remember this person sometimes when you reflect on your life but then the memories will vanish and you’ve forgotten about said person. I think that there are way more important things to worry about than teenage love and the drama that comes with it. With teenage love the issue of maturity comes into effect. How many teenagers are ready to settle down already and be tied to one person? Not many I think, teenagers want the freedom to roam wherever they feel and feel no consequences. You have your whole life to be a settled down married person. Why lock yourself in now? This is your time to explore your options, find the type of person that you know that you’re going to want to spend the rest of your life with. This is also the time where you should be trying to find out who you are. You can’t try to learn about someone if you know nothing about yourself. If I were to go on and say that adult love is realer than teenage love I would be wrong. The truth is no one knows how two people feel about one another. Love is love no matter what age you are. The only thing different between adult love and teenage love is the problems that come along with this choice. If you are a teenager and you’re ready to take this huge leap of faith, then by all means do it. But just be ready for this adult love that you’re getting involved in.
An individual’s love and feelings can not be fraudulent because of their age. To begin with, there is not a big difference between an adult and a teenager. An adult is only an individual, whom has grown to their full size. A teenager, on the other hand, has a lot of physical development needed to be done. Love is a strong feeling that two people feel amongst each other. If people truly love one another, the ability to tolerate their partner on his/her bad days will be no problem because the love is stronger than one misfortunate day. Love is about a lot of things, but to really condense love into one word, it would be maturity. There are two types of maturities which are: physical maturity and mental maturity. Physical maturity is when an individual’s body has fully developed. Mental maturity is the point in one’s life, when he/she can learn to be humble and respectful. The common opinion for teenage love is “they are too young” or “they do not know what they are feeling”. Failed teenage love seems to be ubiquitous through out this generation and is gradually proliferating. Early teenage pregnancies and unknown fathers are examples of failed attempts of teenage love. Many people decline teenage love because of the large numbers of failed teenage love. There is a reason why some teenage loves failed. There was a lack of maturity. The time an individual matures is clearly unpredictable. The most common thought is that an individual is mentally mature when he/she is over the age of twenty-one. This is not true. Age does not determine maturity. One may seem mature because he/she has a lot of experience, but that does not guarantee the individual is truly mature. Think about this: If a person does not go to school or interact with people for twenty one years from birth to present and has no educational experience and is very rude, is he/she mature? There is no age limit to maturity and by the time an individual is mature, then he/she can truly love someone and know what they are feeling. Teenage can indeed be just as real as adult love.
Do I believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love?
I do believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love; it just depends on the people who say they are in love. Many teenagers may know how to define the word love and because they know the definition they just assume they are. One thing we teenagers have a habit of, is getting mixed up with the word love and lust. Lust is just a slight stronger way of saying I like you a lot because, you are either pretty/handsome, you dress nice, or you make me laugh. When love has a much stronger reason; not just because of your looks or the way you dress, but the way you carry yourself and your personality. Teenagers may be in love because, some think and act mature. In my generation its very rear to find a teenage couple that’ is actually in love then instead of just sprung. Some teenagers may be in a relationship calling it love but one may only be in love with the other. A perfect example would be; a boy and a girl is dating and the girl tells the boy she loves him, yes he is going to say it back but most of them do not mean it, or he may be cheating (vise versa). Some boys may just use the word “love” just to use the girl physically, but don’t realize that when they do use the word love it is more mental, it makes the girl think you actually care about her feelings and do not want her for just sex. I believe that some adults are just as venerable because, just like most teens when they hear I love you they get excited and believe it right away. Believe it or not adult love is not always real love!; If adult love was real, then there wouldn’t be a need for divorces, and people in relationships would not get abused by there pier. SOME adults on the other hand are not as venerable as teens, because they have already been through it, you can say they are more prepared. I also believe that adult relationships are better, more romantic because they have no limits to anything they would want to do.
To conclude my opinion would be, yes teen love is real; but we just do not have as much of an understanding to what adults have.
No I do not think that teenage love is as real as adult love because as a maturing adolescent you are naturally an emotional person. For instance when a male teenager sees a female walking around in the neighborhood he won’t even notice her face, he would most likely be staring at her chest or other parts of her body, all except what really matters. When the guy finally decides that he likes what he sees then he will try to go and talk to the girl and make it seem that he likes her personality and interested in what she is thinking when in reality he just want to get her in bed. It’s not just guys the same thing applies to the female teenagers too. When a female sees a guy walking around the neighborhood she will first notice his shoes or if he has a car or not. When the girl finally decides that she can benefit from being with the guy then she will try to talk to him and make it seem that she really likes him when in reality she just wants him for his money. In conclusion when a teen says that they love somebody it’s really just their emotions getting in the way of their logic judgment.
No I do not think that teenage love is as real as adult love because as a maturing adolescent you are naturally an emotional person. For instance when a male teenager sees a female walking around in the neighborhood he won’t even notice her face, he would most likely be staring at her chest or other parts of her body, all except what really matters. When the guy finally decides that he likes what he sees then he will try to go and talk to the girl and make it seem that he likes her personality and interested in what she is thinking when in reality he just want to get her in bed. It’s not just guys the same thing applies to the female teenagers too. When a female sees a guy walking around the neighborhood she will first notice his shoes or if he has a car or not. When the girl finally decides that she can benefit from being with the guy then she will try to talk to him and make it seem that she really likes him when in reality she just wants him for his money. In conclusion when a teen says that they love somebody it’s really just their emotions getting in the way of their logic judgment. shaafiy s.
To me all love is the same. Whether its young love or old love. Most adults don’t even know how to handle their relationships as well as some teens. This four letter word has everyone head stuck on a cloud. Teenage love can be as strong as adult love. Their going through the same issues, and feel the same way about each other just as adults do. Teen relationships are hard, they may look like something childish in an adult’s eye but it’s usually just as serious. We teenagers tend to like having relationships where we get to love and be treated with love when we can’t get it elsewhere. I personally think there isn’t much of a difference to how adults and teenagers love. We all have a heart that wants to be loved. Some teens call their mate their 'Hubby or Wifey' we know we aren’t married it's just that we have that kind of love for each other. Teen love helped me realize that I can be responsible. It doesn’t make me feel grown it just makes me feel like I got somebody that got my back. Someone that is there for me. Just like adults, they get married, Make babies and Just love. So what’s wrong with teenagers just starting off little early? What I’m trying say is teenage love can be just a real as adult love. Because all it is, is two people loving each other.
Hi, My name is ShaQuanna. I do believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love. The reason for that being is because most adults say that teenagers can’t feel love. I believe so; I think it matter based on what you feel in your heart. Most adults did not fall in love until they were also a teenager. I think no matter what your age, you are always as capable and willing to love. People may think its teen lust they feel, but everyone feels it, just like everyone would feel love. For exampleWhile few expect teen love to last a life time that hardly makes it less real. Half or more of all adult doesn't last a lifetime either. Teen loves very real and powerful. Perhaps at no other time in our lives are the joys and pains felt as strongly, or experienced more deeply. Who among us, after all, can ever forget our first love? The first love which has happened during your teen age cannot be totally forgotten. Love is just as strong and sometimes confusing at any age. Even adults can think they're in love sometimes when they're just infatuated. But supposedly, an adult should have more of a clear head concerning who is good for them because their hormones are in check and they have more life experience. This is not always true. It is insulting for someone to tell you you're not feeling love because of your age. Sometimes adults and parents inadvertently belittle your feelings because they're concerned about your future. They might see something wrong with your chosen person or situation based on something they know because of their own life experiences. Keep the lines of communication open; if they love you, they don't mean to insult you. I believe that teenage love is the first step to developing normal healthy relationships in the future. I've heard many people on TV talk how they will never forget their first love. Maybe that's because it taught them how to love. So perhaps teenage love is a steppingstone toward the paths we may choose in our lives. Love, whether new or old, is a way to share important things with a person you are close to and trust. All people need that. Teenagers need love more than anyone. Who else better to get love from than another teenager who's going through the same transitions that you are? Who's to say what kind of love is valid? All love is valid? This is what they had to say.
Christal Dewberry Teenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others. Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did. The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love. In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry Teenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others. Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did. The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love. In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Wow. This is The most confusing topic because of the fact that everyone has different feelings. The Teen who thinks they are in love might feel that teenage love is exactly the same while The Single Teen may feel Adults are the only people who can experience love. Adults may say "eww, these kids are 2 grown talking bout they in love. They dont know what LOVE is" no disrespect but do you even know what love is.
Adults are always against teen love because they say we are not acting appropriate for our age. They should understand the feeling being that they was once a love sprung teenage themselves. I highly doubt any of them waited until they were out of college for their first kiss or first boyfriend. They should be understanding to the whole teenage love concept.
My opinion is that your age doesnt control your feelings. Doesnt matter if your 16 or 21 you can still feel however you want about a person.
When a Teenage girl falls in love she feels light on her feet, she's always happy and she wants this feeling to last forever. The boy on the other is One Track Minded. He's determined to trick the girl into spreading her legs. (Well, not all boys but 4 out of 5.)A Girl develops A mature mind while a boy's imature mind is still focused on playing "booty tag" in the playground. They dont look at it as playing with the girls feelings they just wanna turn everything into a one night stand.
Adults are different. The man has finnally developed his mature mind. He may be ready to start a Family and get married. Some men may still be dogs chasing skirts all day and all night. Some are really focused on working and taking care of his family.Adults have no limit to their relationships . If they choose to have kids they can care for them and not worry about still going to school. They can get married and get a job and live life peacefully.
in closing, My Whole point is that Teenagers And Adults Both Experience REAL love but Adults have a better chance. Your age doesnt determine they way you feel.
Briana Gil I disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be a real as adult love because teenagers don’t know what they really want. And adults already know what they look for in a soul mate. When you’re an adult you have more experience on what love really is. You’ll know how a relationship should be. Teenagers might think that they’re in love, but they’re really not. All they do is argue and make each others lives more harder then it is. When teenagers talk to their parents about that one person they “love” their parents don’t approve of it. They either think they’re to young, or tell them that it’s a bunch of nonsense. Some people might say how much they love someone and how great they are, but what someone doesn’t know is that what they might be feeling for that person isn’t love. Yeah they might be really attracted to someone and feel they like the person a lot, but it takes a lot to love someone. I myself once thought I was in love. I felt like nothing in the world would break us apart. And that he would be there forever. But as a few months past I noticed nothing was the same as the beginning. Everything started to fad away. When we broke up, I was really hurt, and tried to figure out where I went wrong or where her went wrong. But then I realized that it wasn’t love at all. And that I let my heart take over my thoughts, and listened to what my heart said, and not what my mind said. But now I know that I’ll just wait until its my time to fall in love. Love is when you can trust someone and have really strong feelings for them. When you tell each other the truth. But nowadays you don’t see teenagers do that. Couples are constantly playing with each others feelings, disrespecting each other, or lying to each other. Some guys are always treating girls like if they were one of his guy friends. And some girls like it when guys treat them like that. Some girls take abuse from they’re boyfriends and claim that they play around that way. I don’t think that’s good in a relationship. This goes for adult love as well. Some adults abuse each other for no reason. Love can be complicated, it can be lovely, it can hurt a lot, or it wont hurt at all.
I think aldut love is not the same as teenage love beacuse we have a lot to learn in life . When you are a teenager you get heart broken boys walk in and out of your life . When you get older the same things happen but you will know how to handel it .Love is a strong word at the age of 14 to 19 . I personally feel when you pass 30 you will be able to feel a lot of things you never felt and know a lot of things you didn't when you were a teenager . Love can do a lot of things to you when your young . Some kids say they are in love but mostly in lust .When you young you really don't know and understand what that word means until you felt and lived it . I mean alduts do more things that teenagers don't well then again they do which is have sex . Sex is an aldut move but that comes with the stage of love beacuse when you feel you love someone you would love to give them your all and have inner course with them .So there for I feel teenage love and adult love are way different.
So the question is If Teenage Love Can Be Just As Real As Adult Love ? In my opinion yes it really can. Love Is Love No matter what age or mind state you have love and that feeling you get about or towards someone is going to be there. Many adult's are in love with or married to one of their high school crush. With that being how could you say that love back then as a teenager wasn't real when you are still in love with that someone as an adult. Now I'm not saying this question is completely wrong but i feel a lot of people should look deep into this topic. Many teenagers think they know what love is when they really don't. The same goes for adults too.
Basically, No matter what age you are, how you feel is how you feel. If you love someone deeply then thats just real love. Age isn't anything but a number and love is real for whoever truly feels it.
Christal Dewberry Teenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others. Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did. The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love. In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry Teenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others. Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did. The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love. In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Teenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry Teenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others. Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did. The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love. In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry Teenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others. Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did. The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love. In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry Teenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others. Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did. The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love. In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Teenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
In my opinion teenage love is not the same as adult love. Teen love can be described as ‘’puppy love’’. Teen love to me, is based on physical attraction, where as adult love is much more serious and goes beyond physical attraction, especially from a male point of view. In our generation having a girlfriend is like having a new pair of sneaker s, that’s what’s hot right now but as soon as the next pair of sneakers comes out in a different color that’s what you want. In other words all it takes is a girl with better ‘’assets ‘’ and the guy is gone. As a result this is why most teenage relationships don’t last very long, If you ask the average fifteen or sixteen year old ‘’What’s the longest relationship you have been in ? Most likely they might say two or three months, an adult may look at that situation and say to themselves ‘’in two months I just figured his or her hobbies or favorite things’’. Adults take the time to actually get to know each other before they rush into a relationship. Also the mentality of an adult is different because they want to know each other mentally 1st , emotionally 2nd, and last, physically. But most importantly as a teen your still trying to find yourself , which is why in teen relationships you see a lot of insecurities such as a girl having a problem with her boyfriend being friends with another girl or a guy having a problem with the way his girlfriend looks at another guy. Now don’t get me wrong some adults also have the same insecurities but it is more common in teenage relationships. This also doesn’t mean that a teenage relationship can’t manifest into a serious relationship but that depends on the maturity level of the two individuals involved. It also depends on how well the two people can tolerate each other because everyday is not going to be a walk in the park and there will be times when your girlfriend or boyfriend gets on your absolute last nerve. In conclusion teen love is not same as adult love but if the two individuals can work through each others insecurities and stay committed to each other than it can be come the same as adult love.
In my opinion I think teenage love can't be as real love as adult love for a couple reasons because teenagers have not been around and not exprience things adult had in life. I think teenagers think their in love, but it only lust.I think adult love is a matter of you understanding your partner and knowing what your partner is capable of doing.Also knowing their boundaries.Like what Nigel said teenage love have it limit whether it from your friends or even your parents. Also what teenagers think is love is hormones explosive.
Teengers love can' t be as real adult love. Starting with the realitionship itself. If you with a person just to sleep with them .That not love and just plain wanting to have sex with them, like teenagers today that what they do. They tell him/ her they love them just to have the bragging rights of sleeping with that person for your popularity or other reason. In most adult relationship is the oppsite your in the relationship because you love that person unless you in a relationship for some other reason (kids, money, etc) that the reason. I look at it is if you don't love a person why you in a reationship you waste that person time and yours.
Like Nigel said teenagers love have limits. One is maybe from his/her her parent like some parnt may not like or just don't want him her in a relationship.Also friends can't limited a teengers relationship like choosing to hang with your friends all time over your boy/girl friends is not love because if you love that person you spending alot of time with that person and that with majority of teenagers do.FINally a teenager love cant be as real is a adult because teenager faces the reality of hormones and at that age your hormones exploded.That my opinion bye Keyonna A.
I feel like adult love is stronger but than again so is teenage love.My reason for this is because adults were around longer so they have more experience on what love is than what teens know,but i also disagree because most adults relationships started in high school. So to me love is love no matter what age shape or shoe size if you have somebody who makes you feel like the world revolves around you and they make sure your good at all times then thats love. Most adults sometimes dont know what love is either because they play as much games as teenagers do but the way i feel is if you have that special person that will hold you down no matter what the case may be then thats love. Love is also when you and your boyfriend or girlfriend are having trouble and yall stop dating but every time you go out with somebody they get mad i feel thats love to because its something about you that he still cares for and its something about him that you still care about. But to conclude my opinion love is love no matter what.
KENNY HAYNES, Love is something that you see everyday. With adults and also teenagers. The question is, can teenager love be as real as adult love? No I don’t think that teenager love can be the same as adult love at all. Adults have more experience in their life. Teenagers are too young and immature to understand what real love is. This is a point of their life were all of there hormones are raging and teenagers do dumb things and fall in “love”. I think when some teenagers say they are in love with another partner they are blinded by this love. Love is an extremely powerful thing that affects people feelings and way of thinking. Teenagers are too young to understand that, with all of their hormones going on. That’s why teenager love cannot be the same as adult love. Adults are more mature and their hormones aren’t as high as teenagers. Adults are more serious about love than teenagers, and teenagers take love as puppy love. Another thing is that adults learn from their mistakes so they won’t make new ones. Which in teenagers haven’t made their mistakes yet so would easily fall in love, and not know what they are getting into. Most of the times with teenager it’s mostly about sex. That can also make a teenager fall in love with someone. Most adults wouldn’t rush into sex, they would settle down first and get to know each other, and that’s true love. On the other hand, teenagers need to learn from their mistakes so they can become more mature. Every adult was a teenager before and am sure they were probably in “love” with someone too and made the same mistakes teenagers are making right now. That’s exactly why teenager love cannot be the same as adult love, because they have to learn from their mistake. And those mistakes they make, made them understand love more. Everyone needs that experience to comprehend what love really is. When they learn from their mistakes they would finally find out what love really is.
Marvin Clarke No I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love because teenagers can say that they love someone but sometimes it’s not true, For Example a boy sees a girl that they think is cute and they talk her up and get to go out with and a couple of days later that boy tell the girl that he love her but he does not even know much about her. This usually happens to certain teenager’s boys and girls they would do something like that without even checking if they have something in common with that person that they are dating. Some Adults do the same thing but others know the true meaning to the word “Love”, when you say that you love someone you have to really feel that way for that person and the person has to feel the same way about you and you also have to create a common bond with your lover.
Another reason why I say no is because adult have the privilege to see there boyfriend/girlfriend without asking or someone having a problem with their date, in teenage love parents think they have the rights to tell us who to date or not date or when we can see our date. Whoever we date is our decision because at the end of the day we have to be with that person, I understand that our parents are looking out for our love life but if they have train their children to choose the right love partner then they have nothing to worry about. Adults live in a different world then teenagers because teenagers fall in love to easily and they don’t really understand the true meaning of love. Love is a strong emotion that boys, girl, male and female feel when they have a strong connection with the person that they are dating. People should not play with their lovers emotions because you say you love someone then you don’t men it the other person will feel heartbroken and that person heartbroken will never trust you again, they don’t want to feel this pain again. So I conclude that people should think about how they feel, how much connection they have and have a person might feel before they make a decision and say “ I love You” to their partner and I do not think that teenage love is real as adult love.
Hi my name is Akeiba Rollins. I believe teen love is somewhat real as adult love. But then in some ways people look at it different. It can be real but teenage love is more puppy love than the ones that adults have we are still playful and less serious. Some teen might look at relationship as just having a boyfriend to just have one. At time teen love wouldn't be serious because teen love might only last for a few months. Such as adult it more experience in adult love and it a lot you have to put into adult love. With adult love it comes with more responsibility. Adult take their relationship serious where adult work half and half to help each other through needs and like helping out with bills and what not. Teens relationship don’t last for very long Teen do the kissing or going out and just spending time with each You know how teen are "That my baby” or "That my world". Most time people say teen love don't last at all or even in high school. So much of problems happen where rumors come along and in times feeling change. But then parents think teenager doesn’t really know what love is. Some only think about themselves and what they want. Some think its love because of lack of attention from somewhere else and they are getting it from that one person. Even if you are a teen it's a lot of work. You are getting older so feeling will change soon as u become a adult and how you will look at relationship might be different when you was a teen or might not be. For teens and adult there always Temptation where in most teen life things like this happen. But you know it life and you are young and at that age you might not want settle because you still want to talk to other girls. You know noting wouldn't change in adult mind. Teenage might have their limits and adult don't but still anything happen with teenage love. Teens do rush into doing adult thing. Even if people just might see something wrong with the person you are with. Love is love but it all depends on the type of love you have with that persons. But you know how parents are they always want to pick the right guy for you. In this world there isn't any Mr. Right. As long he fits your needs and your happiness then you are good. Every relationship doesn’t work out right at time because it either the female feeling a different way about that person or the guy cheated one out of them two you know the most common problem when a relationship goes wrong. Love could also have so much affects on it because at time when you are in love with someone and you always want that person around you just like teenage do if you are in love.
Yes, I do believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love simply because love doesn’t pick ages. I feel that no matter what age you are you can still be in love. Adults feel that teenagers are too young for love that they may not know what love is or that were not really in love. I don’t think that the two could really be compared because I think that the two are equal and love is love. I also think that teenage love doesn’t last as long as adult love simply because of lack of experience. People say that it’s not love its just raging hormones. But I don’t think the way you feel should always have something to do with happening in your body. I wouldn’t say that teenage love isn’t real compared to adult love I would just say that it is different because of experience, which sometimes has to do with how old you are. Another thing that I would like to point out is that even though were a teenager doesn’t mean were all the same some teenagers are immature and not serious about it and their relationship will end quickly and fail, relationships fail for many important reason like the cheating and other problems but I think those are the most important ones in teenage love . But other teenagers are really in love and are serious about their feelings. I think that certain things in a relationship make it real and determine if you really love each other. I think that those are the things that make it real not age nor being a teenager the way you really feel and how serious you are about it should make it real. Another thing that I would like to point out is that just because your romantically involved with someone doesn’t mean that your in love you might be going out with them or different things like for example one thin would be money you might be going out for what they have or what they could buy you. so yes I think that teenage love is just as real as adult love but it depends on if you are really in love or if you are serious about it.
I do not think that teenage love can be as real as adults. First of all, most teenager minds are too immature to know what love is. They act on their feelings and do the wildest things even to the extent of harming themselves.
To most teens, love is all about sex and it is not uncommon to hear both boys and girls bragging about it. I’m sure most people hear them on the trains, on the buses, even in the classroom. Constantly teens are presumed into sexual behaviors. Teens who do not want to live up to their expectations face constant heckling and a word like “virgin” becomes a taunting word.
If teens love is ever real, there will be more respect. Today they refer to each other by all kinds of derogatory names and they think that’s so cool. Do teens experience real love when they sought after the popular girls and boys and constantly compete with each other?
Some might argue that love is love, but I think real love comes with maturity when people are old enough to really appreciate, respect and care for each other other.
Do I believe that teenage love can be as real as adult love ? Well to answer this question, I feel that teenage love can be as real as adult love. Even though adults are more experienced, us teenagers are getting to that age where we start to have different feelings and start to understand more about love. Some adult relationships are not always serious and some adults still don't know the true meaning of love. Even though us teenagers are young, we also have feelings and we do start to love. In some adult relationships, women tend to get beat and not treated right and those women think that's love but its not and that shows that some adults just don't know the true meaning of love. I feel that love is just love and anybody can love. Love has no age to it. Even though teenagers are less mature then adults we still have feelings and we cannot control those feelings. Also, some teenagers are even smarter then some adults and that can tell you a lot. Even though we are teenagers, we are old enough to feel what we are feeling. Love is just a feeling so that means it goes adults and even teenagers.
As you can see, I feel that teenage love can be as real as adult love ") .
I feel that love is love no matter what age. As one of the most used quotes and most common heard, age does not matter. Its been used through out life over and over. Some of the strongest relationships are actually formed from high school and those high school sweet hearts tend to get married. Also if you think about it what does love mean?? How can you say who has love and who doesnt. Its all about your definition of love. Love is the will to do anything for a person, to give what you can and do all for that person. Teenagers experience that along with adults. Love is a feeling that can be shared between anyone and anything. Even animals share love with a mate they share for a life time. Love for teens and adults are the same no matter which way you put it. Teenagers get their hearts broken over what they thought was love and so do adults. Adults get heart broken all the time of what they think is love. I have seen adults weep and sob over some one they loved that broke up with them. I have seen adults hide in their house and just eat ice cream looking at pictures. Love is any where and is in any age. It all depends if you find it. ----Joshua Myvette-----
Well as you can see I didn't quite complete the minimal 500 words so i will continue on with this one. Love for both is the same, both suffer bad break ups, most of what people call ''love isn't really love, its just infatuation, they are just loving for the moment. 20% of married couples were high school sweet hearts. The other 80% are adults that will suffer a divorce from the next 3-5 years of their relation ship. Love is rarely found but when it is, it can be in any age. Adult love has a larger foundation more structure, while teens just go with the flow. Even with the structural support adults claim to have it still gets destroyed. Adults still cheat and sleep around even though they believed it would never happened. Love is a word that most use just because they feel it was the other wants to hear. Love is proven over time,the will to stay with the other should get stronger the longer they have been together. Love doesn't break if it really is true. This is my outtake on what love is. --------JOSHUA MYVETTE------------
Juvanee Jackson Teenage Love And Adult Love Is Both Interested Topics; and I believe that teenage love can be Just As Real As adult love an at times its just not. Even Thought I’ve Never Experience teenage love myself from what I’ve witness from both teenage and adults I believe that it takes time to love a person its not something you can rush into and I see a lot of that everyday. If you ask me there’s a difference and Non-Differences in both teenage love and adult love butt however I think both teens and adults have there moments when they rush into love by getting caught up in the moment it might feel like love at first butt after a while it starts to get harder and harder. With teen love you have so much to learn and we can be influenced by what we think or have an idea of what love is and it can end horrible if were not ready for what is thrown at us. I think With Adult Love Most adults Have more experience with sex, life and love than teens so they know the do’s and don’ts and what real love is and where till learning, we till have more growing to do mistakes to make and mistakes to learn from. In relationships not everything is handled the mature way with both adults and teens that’s what makes our love alike. This is a huge debate if you ask me and I don’t have all the answers to this question to this but just what I know ; but it’s a 50/50 answer something’s in teen love adults can relate to and same with teens I believe there’s no right or wrong answers to this question/topic.
Kendra Thomas Simple question, do I believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love? I do believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love. Your age doesn’t define the way you feel about someone and or the way they feel about you. For example if you have an older sister and you both love your mother, is your older sisters love realer than yours just because she’s older? Of course not, I think older people just have a few things that would make a relationship last longer than most teenagers do. Those things are having the ability to go where ever you want to go and when ever you want to go. As well as most likely having more experience in relationships, being older gives you the great privilege of spending alone time with that one special person you love. Also being older most likely makes you want a commitment with someone, so petty stuff like hugging someone or being around someone a lot will not make an older person get as jealous as a younger person. Even if the older person does get as jealous it won’t be as big of a problem; because of the knowledge they have in relationships they would probably handle their partnership in a more mature way. Though this is if both adults want the relationship to work, I’m not saying that teenagers won’t want there relationship to work. I’m just saying they have more distractions and more problems in there life that would cause a relationship to end. Some of the definitions of love (a strong positive emotion of regard and affection, any object of warm affection or devotion, and have a great affection or liking for.) None of theses definitions or definitions I have seen mentions anything about age. It didn’t say though love is something grand and special you have to be this old ___ for it to actually count. Only you know how you feel and though I do believe that its easier for an adult to be in a relationship that was not the question. Love is love no matter what age skin color or gender. No one knows how you feel only you do. Sure many adults will say well your just a teen you don’t know what love is, really well how do they know what it is. To me love is a very good, pure and strong feeling you have about someone, though that’s just me define it however you might like.
I don't think teenage love could be the same as adult love.When your an adult there won't be as many chances to find that special person so you end up taking relationships more serious.But as a teenager you can stay with someone for as long as you want and just leave that person if they start to get annoying.Teenage love is more like a do it because you can,if the worst happens just leave and start over again.As a teenager you can fall in love with as many people as you want because you have the rest of your life ahead of you,so you shouldn't have to worry about staying with one person for a week, a month,or maybe even a year.Some people find their soul-mates during their teenage years so good for them....But love as a teenager is mostly a test run to find out the type of person whose best for you.If you really cared for someone but they don't feel the same way,the best you could do is shrug it off and keep trying again.As an adult since you can't meet new people everyday you might have to take your relationship more serious and can't just rule someone out because of some minor disturbance.
I believe under certain circumstances that teenage love is the same as adult love. I believe they are the same type of love because once a teenager is mature enough to realize they have fell in love it becomes adult love. Some teenagers may be immature, maybe even most are immature. But most teenagers have grown up to meet their partner that they might possibly be with forever. I’ve heard of high school sweet hearts. And, all that is, is teenage love. I believe that as a teenager you can fall in love and, as an adult you can fall in love as well. Love is love. And, when anyone finds it they hold on to it. Age does not have anything to do with love. May I say from personal experience it takes two to love even at a young age. You can find yourself loving at a very young age. Love is hard to find and may also take time for one to find it. But from my opinion you find love quicker when you’re younger then when you are older. The young love becomes adult love. You may love someone more than you do yourself. Plenty of teenagers fell in love. And those same teenagers have become adults and still love one another the same as when they were those simple young individuals. Love takes time it does not rush itself. Although most teenagers are immature, love in certain cases makes them grow up quicker. When your young you may find your first love. Some people may confuse love. You may like someone a lot but that does not mean that you love a person. This may happen to teenagers, it may also happen to adults. They confuse love with lust. They are two different words and have two different meanings. Lust is liking someone a lot. Love is a stronger meaning. Love is putting someone before yourself, possibly dieing for this person, doing everything and anything you can for this person. Love is meeting someone you know you don’t want to ever loose and someone you want to be with forever. So is teenage love the same as adult love? Yes I believe so. I’ve experienced it as a teenager. And any other teenager may experience it. So yes I believe that they are the same.
The word "love" can be tossed around in all relationships once in a while. As for teenage love being as real as adult love, I agree that it can be. This all depends on the two individuals involved in the relationship. When a person finds that significant other who makes them happy shouldn't that be considered love? Yet, adults do have the upper hand of having more experience to deal with love, heartbreak, etc, but MATURE teens are able to grasp these concepts and understand things on how to keep away from this or try to make sure it doesn’t happen to them. To me love is love no matter if your 15 or 35, when one person can make you happy and treat you well does it matter if its teen love. To me some adults don’t know what love is, when they find a bf/gf they go crazy. Telling that person you love them and they make you happy when you’ve only been seeing each other for a week. Although teens have the tendency to do the same as well. The word “love” should be said when the two people have been through a lot(like teens in this day and age) or maybe when that person is your sweetheart from a young age(like adults). Just because your older doesn’t mean you have more experience…. It just means you know how to play the game of love. Teens know how to get away with things. We can talk our way to see the person or we can just do it the old fashion way and sneak out just to tell that special person.. “I Love You”. You can’t put a stop to love no matter what you do people will always find a way to get to love. Both teens and adults are similar with love, they both do what they need to keep it and this is can most likely be proven. As teens get older then they’ll understand more and will see things in their love that adults may not see in theirs. But both groups are pretty similar and this is why I believe that teenage love is as real as adult love.
No I really don’t think that teenage love can be just as real as adult love. My reason being is because of the facts I know about teenage and adult love, my personal experience in such situation and also what I recognize from time to time in my surroundings. Many people will say love is simply love and it doesn’t matter where it’s coming from or aiming at. But I think love helps us to feel important, understood and secure. Love is greatly impact on the individuals in the relationship and so it indeed matters where its coming from or aiming at. Teenage love is beginners love and doesn’t contribute much to what love really is. Typically teenagers have shorter love relationships and the reason is quite simple. During the teenage years, teenagers instinctively seek lots of different experiences and try out different things. It’s all part of discovering who they are, what they value, and what they want out of life. Also teenagers love relationships fade away as they get older. To many teenage guys relationships are mainly about physical attraction while teenage girls emphasize closeness as most important - although they don't mind if a potential love interest is cute too. Most teenagers wants to have the best time of their live when they are young and so they inherit the barbaric behaviors from other peers around them. Such behaviors includes lots of dating, partying and romantic sessions. Adult love on the other hand is completely different - at least adults in their mid age and elderly. These love relationships typically last a life time and that’s because they understand true love and good relationship. They learned to give and receive from one another, reveal honest feelings, and listen and support each other. In healthy, long-term relationships, couples often find that intense passion comes and goes at different times. But they often find solution to their problems and continue their life as it was. Sometimes, though, a couple loses the closeness and attraction. For adults, relationships can sometimes turn into “empty love”. This means that the closeness and attraction they once felt is gone, and they stay together only because of commitment. This is very rare in teenage relationships and a reason why their relationships often end.
Teenage love can be just as real as adult love because teenagers have a life to live.Teenagers like to party , go out to eat , etc.Teenage love can be very joyful because teenagers are really future grown up's that's going to enlarge the population of grown up's.I think teenage love can be more like adult love because some teenagers are more experience and mature like adults. I think teenage love is similar to adult love. Most adults find there first love when they are teenagers because that's when people start to catch that love feeling about that person they fell in love with. Teenagers love increase into adult love even thought teenagers party and enjoy them self's .teenagers are the type of people that go out and have fun with more and more teens and find different lovers. Adult love isn't very joyful because adult's have different altercations to deal with , adults don't party as teenagers can .;-) At some points teenage love is very important which can be limited as in using protecting your self at all times because teenage hormones start to appear more and more and things start to happen. Another thing is teens are going to SHAKE , ARGUE and make up that's why i feel teenage and adult love is similar because all adults do is make up even if it takes a long time to make up its the LOVE that keeps the relastionship going.
pauline kornegay First of all I have two perspectives teenagers and adults can love the same but then again some of people in my generation is immature and cannot handle real love or they can not stay with one person because they think it’s to long. Some parents do not allow their child to love and they cannot experience the true lovers till they turn adults. Teenagers who have they permission to love but some don’t, but the point I am trying to make is there is two point of views teenagers and adult love can be the same based on the child freedom or the child thoughts meaning if the teenager think being with some one for a long time is bad thing that’s there thoughts. Some teenagers and adults do the same thing as far as ‘intimacy’ some teenagers can not handle love because of the way the men approach the women for example the boys are trying to talk to the girls and they say ‘ayooo’ or they say yo ‘shawty’ or they make noises that’s not the way to talk to a women. The heart breaks are the same as when you’re a teenager or an adult. And another way teenage love can not last is when your tied down by parents and school it kind of hard to do that and keep a boyfriend because they want you to spend time with them. Love is a strong and powerful word for adults and teenagers that’s why many people take so long to say I love you because that word can break a lot of hearts. Life for teenagers is about having fun before you get old and it’s to late not to be tied down by love. Some teenage boys tell the girls they love them just to have sex with them. Many teenagers let the emotions get in front of there logic judgment. some adults may think that teenagers cannot love like they can because they did not live a full life but no one have lived a full life everyone have to make mistakes and learn from them teenage boys that doesn’t know how to talk to young women would not want their mothers of sisters or grandmothers t to be treated that way so they need to learn how to talk to young women
In my opinion, I do believe teenage love is as real as adult love. When there is love between two people that are in a relationship nothing matters. When a person is in love they have a passion for their partner. They want the whole package that comes with love, all of the emotions. The joy, anger, silliness, jealousy, fear, sadness, concern, and more, long as there is mutual respect understanding and communication. The people that start dreaming about that type of relationship are teenagers, so they could live it also. For adults it is superficial that when they feel like they are truly in love with someone they get married. Yeah, that sound like real love but over fifty percent of marriages end in divorce. Having that happen is a waste of money and time for the partners to look for a true love. Now if you ask me I think real love last forever. Teenagers are just as, probably even more capable in having true love as any adult. I actually believe that it is better to find love as a teenager because usually it is about enjoying each other , and living in the moment, instead of looking for a partner that you expect to provide to or the other way around. Many married people that fell in love when they were teenagers are still married. Teenage love is more efficient than adult love because they are not afraid to express their feelings, as adults try to suppress their feelings. If I could determine my future of love I would rather have teenage love, because of all the reasons listed above. Love is love no matter what kind it is or who it is between it is all the same but some are much more appreciated than others. I think love is sacred and when you and your partner find love whether you are a teenager or adult it should be cherished, even if it does not last forever, it is worth everything, and lessons and new discoveries are made about the person that can help them find their real or true teenage or adult love. By Shamika Nelson
Honestly I think teenage love could never be as real as adult love. Adults have more experience in life and have a better understanding of what love really is. Adults were once teenagers so they know how teenagers feel and they know that its just puppy love. One thing that makes teenage love not as serious is sacrifice. If you really love somebody you will sacrifice anything for that person. If you have your last twenty dollars and you love someone and they have nothing you must be willing to share your last twenty. You got to be willing to be there for your partner. And it has to work that way on both sides of the relationship. You be real committed to a relationship. And that not what teenagers have, commitment. An adult on the other hand knows how to really commit. Another thing it depends on is the two people that are involved maturity level. Most adults are mature and know how to handle situations if they get out of hand. One important thing about teenage love is that you can walk away at any time and it wouldn’t be as bad. Its not the same with adult love. One more thing is that most adult relationships last much longer then teenage relationships. It is rare if you see a teenage relationship that exceeds two years. From what I have seen adult relationships last much longer than that. And adult love is not based only on looks. It also about the personality of the person. A lot teenager’s look for people that pretty or handsome. But adults have been there and they probably learned that it is not all about looks, but it is about the quality of the person. Teenagers have so many things to learn before that could actually know what true love really is. They just don’t have enough life experience to know what the word love really means. Right now they think there in love but when they get older there going to laugh at what they thought was love. When they become adults then they will what love truly is.
No I do not believe teenage love could be just as real as adult love because they are too completely different sets of people at different stages in life. While some teens just want to be in a relationship for sometimes foolish reasons adults take their relationships more seriously and are most likely looking for somebody to settle down with. Some teenagers are constantly in relationships because they are lacking the attention they get from their partner in their life otherwise or because they are looking to have a special bond or friendship with another person. Males in their mid to late teens are usually more interested in physical attractions while most girls are interested in mental relationships. This clash in interests is already setting up for a failing relationship. Teens are also more likely to lose interest in one another after a short period of time unlike adults who would be more willing to commit to long term relationships. Teens are just looking to have fun with each other and build small relationships some of the teens they come across and are attracted to. Adults are more mature and want to find somebody to spend the rest of their life with. Adults have been through the phases of liking several people as a child and they eventually grow out of it and become ready to commit to somebody for a longer period of time than pervious relationships they may have had as a teen. Adults also know what they would like to gain out of a relationship while some teens may not know what they want and just like because they are liked. Teens are usually searching for companionship while adults may be looking for something more advanced and deeper than that like a soul mate that they can grow old with. A relationship between two adults is a different bond than one that could be found between two teens because adults are wiser from previous experience and teens tend to act only on strong emotions and usually don’t give their emotions time to develop to their full potential as an adult would. When teens are in relationships they also feel obligated to tell their partner I love you although sometimes they do mean it other times they only say it because their partner said it first and they do not want to disappoint them by not saying it back. While adults in this situation most likely would not tell their partner they love them if they do not mean it. So based on the things listed as well as others that were not mentioned I do not believe teenage love and adult love should be classified as the same thing.
Madiyyah says: yes I believe teenage love can be as real as adult love because people fall in love when their young and still be with that special someone. For people to really love somebody they have to have known them for a long time or love at first sight. Except one thing teenagers are jus full drama and arguments and violence. And adults are more mature then them they look at things from differently then what us teenagers would react. A lot of adult’s first love was when they were younger. My friend shaniece was walking in the street with me and this random boy came up to her and said have you seen my wife. So she said what was she wearing? So the boy described everything that she was wearing and what he thought bout her. And now their young adults with twins named Sharika and Rakia. But one thing bout teenagers they go threw a lot of bad relationships just find that perfect someone. Adults they just look for what they want and need. But to me love is when someone really loves someone because of all the drama they done went threw with them and how they treat them. Love can happen anytime, anyplace, anywhere. Love is a deep feeling that people feel when they think they founded that special someone. Love is a stronger you only say it when you mean not just to say it and play with peoples head. Many teenagers have short relationships because they don’t like the person no more, or they ways changed or they just changed period. Most of the teenage guys are worried bout sex some of them are not. They don’t care about the girls feeling they jus want what they want and then they leave that’s only some boys. Adults would just tell you how they feeling and they won’t hide it. They would just be honest even if it’s going to hurt. And teenagers like to have fun and party, adults really don’t party like teenagers. Adults have more duties in a relationship because people that been together for a long time they have kids. Teenagers know their limits and what they can do and what they can’t do. Every relationship is not good with arguing, physcial, emotion, honest, and trust and if you don’t have these things you don’t have nothing.
I do beieve that teenage love is the same as adult love . The reason why is because regardless love is love, it doesnt matter whether your 14 or 32 . You know what the feeling of love is . Teenagers engage in the same activities as adults just wih less stressful situations. When in lov adults want to move in with eachother, get married, etc. While when your a teenager you may have the same amount of love for someone as an adult in that situation. Just because we cannot get married which is said to be the way to show your true love for someone, just because we cannot do that does not mean we are not capable of loving the same way . The only difference is the level of maturity is all. It has always been females are more emotional then men. Does that change with age ? No it does not. Adults fail to realize most teenagers in our generation are just as mature as them. we may not pay bills, or have figure jobs but we carry ourselves just the same. The only argument that can be made on this topic is the age difference which determines the maturity . which is not 100% factual. it absouletly depends on the person's involved in the relationship, because people may look at an adult relationship and say they act like kids. So in conclusion teenage love is just as real as adult love. . we are all human and age doesnt determineif i can love someone at the age of 14 as seriously as someone who loves someone else at the age of 30 . .
My name is Adrielle Knowles. I believe that teenage love can be just as strong as adult love. I say that because of “Romeo and Juliet” by William Shakespeare. In “Romeo and Juliet” they fell in love so deeply that they both ended up killing themselves over the simple fact that they were in love. No one wanted to believe the given truth. What Romeo and Juliet had was love even down to the part when they ending up killing themselves. They felt their love was so true they can die for it. I believe love doesn’t have an age limit, it’s a feeling, the deepest emotions you have when you’re in love. You can’t help that you love someone as an. Most people think that teen love is just lust or just for popularity but teens can fall in love. Even though we are young and the elders are wiser it doesn’t change the fact that teens have feeling to. You were teenagers once, so you should remember how it feels. Love is Love no matter how old you are. Give the teen’s credit for once how can we manage what our heart refuses to regard? Anyone that says teenagers cannot fall in love is in my opinion in fact the feelings of love for them can be even more intense as for an adults. This is my brief entry on why I believe that teenage love can just be as strong as adult love.
i dont think teenage love is not the same as adult love only because of the matter of experience. i think teenage love is the amateur version of it. i mean when our hormones are at our highest wat do we think love is. Some teenagers think its lust some think its other things that does not fully depict the understanding of what luv is. Adult love is based purely on experience and maturity. Once u become an adult u wouldve experince all different type of relationships and hardships during that time. there are those who found teenage love and later blossed into adult love but there are those people who still wish they had a second chance so they could atleast lved before they settled being tied down to once person from 14 to 80 might be challenging but it an sometime be worth it in many ways. We do hve to give some people credit for ther share in the teenage love thing because if it wasnt for them then who would we believe in and who could we look up to. so teenage luv is amateur but tru and adult love is beautiful but acheived
Do we know the mean of love? And how do you know you’re in love?? Is question we should ask? The is do I believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love? well love is a strong emotion affection,that you have toward your man/ women To me teenage love is base the same as adult because we all feel the same thing one only thing some teenage don’t worry about one
HI EVERYBODY MY NAME IS CHASITY- Let me tell you something’s about what I have made hypothesis about teenage love. Teenage love can be just as real as adult love but first you have to know what love is? But quite nobody knows as my self I don’t know but as far of what I haven’t been through I could say seeing and hearing about it is not so good. You go through break ups, crying, not focus, you do a lot of things to get rid of or gain love. The benefits of you and a partner talking or even friendship it depends on how well you know the partner or your relationship to the person. Most people understand love in their teens and fall in love for first time in teenage life. It’s not easy to say you and partners is or are in love, people make mistakes and will be forgiving for them but most people don’t. I’m not saying you have to fall in love with a friend or partner but it could be family. My mother always told me “life without love is no life at all”. Now love it is vital it could be expressed May different ways. Teenage love can also be described as getting involved emotionally with a person or more. But what’s love got to do with it? Its how you personally feel if you ready to say you love a person say it you might look back in the future and say aye did I love that person? Hmm so why did it lead to this why do things fall apart is it purposely or accidentally? But I don’t know what love is nobody does but I’m willing to listen if someone is telling me the experiences.
Marvin Clarke No I don’t think teenage love is real as adult love because some teens take the word “Love” and throw it around like it is a joke but adults would do the same but feel guilt about doing it. Teens don’t really understand what is love and when they catch a feeling they never felt before when their in a relationship they would call that love. Love is strong emotion that a boy, girl, man and woman feel when they have a strong connection with their partner, if you have this in your relationship then you can say that you’re in love. Some teens would play with their partner’s emotions, for example: A boy would talk up a girl and get to date her then the boy gets to know something about the girl that he think they have in common then after and week or two the boy would say he love her and she gets excited but not knowing that the boy does not mean it but when she find out that he did not really love her she will feel heart broken, a boy should not say he love a girl unless he means it because mix the girls emotions and might not let the girl trust any boy when they say that they really love her. Some adults understand what love is and cares about their partners feelings so they would no do something like that. If you don’t have a strong connection with your partner or feel a strong way for your partner then you’re not in love you just think you are. You have to take sometime before you say that you love him/ her because he/she will think that you’re getting serious to fast and people know they would not want that. Some teens expect when you say you love them that you can’t change your mind when you and your partner brake up, if you brake up with on you love try to fight for her/he back if that don’t work move on because its not worth it. So to end this I say that No I don’t think adult love is as real as teen love and that people should stay true to their partner and do say “ I love you” to someone unless it’s the true your speaking.
Do you believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love? Why/why not? Could teenage love really can be like adults love? Maybe. I think teenage love is probably difficult and hurtful during this time because if any teenage girl/boy tryna find love and they found one but not really sure about them and the boy plays the girl its gonna be hurtful for the girl. They will be heartbroken and they will never will be unheartbroken. To have a real teeanage love a girl/boy should find the right person to love and have a relationship with them and see how it turns out. If it turns out good that mean that's the one for you. Adult's love is almost the same as the teenage love but different. Adult love is you go and find a person you love, see how your relaionship go, and get married and have kids. But mostly some adult's don't be doing that. They just find a women, just like them, and that's about it. And also adults be break up because over an arguement or if they cheating on them just like teenage love. But mostly some teenage be doing that during these times of life but they don't really know what they missing upon themselves. If the adult show the teenage the right way of life and find love it wouldn't be happening. If the adult don't show the teenage the right things to find love and to have the right girl to be with they won't be fine. But I believe that teenage love can be just as real as an adult's love because the adult went through the same stage as them during there life and time period.
i do belive that teen love is real as adult love . because some teens and adult be in love but some dont want to be in love with you or say that" i love you" but dont meant it at all .also if the boy said it over with you and go out with other girl and that hurt yourself . some adult go through with some heartbreak . but some adult talk about there problems with the person they go out with .or they fix their problems with that person. teen love & and adult love are same because some teen find love and end with a break up as like adult do the same .
Could teenage love really be like adult love? I doubt it. I mean first of all look at the teenagers in my generation, I could sum up most of them in simply one word " immature". These days teens don't want toact their age. I am not trying to sexist or anything but serious most girls out there would make an issue out of the simplest. For example if a girl sees her boyfriend looking at another girl- take note just looking- it becomes such a big issue. " ohh you think I an not good enough for you no more" , "is she the one you have texting?" , " you don't love me anymore" and this is the one I personally like the most " what do you see in her that you don't see in me?" these ate the words us boys tend to here just for looking and not even admiring God's beautiful creation.
ReplyDeleteThe next issue is the way we address each other. Nowerdays a young lady is given the name of a female dog. I mean serious who would want to have a relationship with a female dog. The crazy thing is that the teen girls seem to like it because they also call each other using that same word. Us boys are called niggers. Some of our ancestors died for us not to be called in that manner -sorry for being racist- by the white people. However here we disgracing ourselves ad a people.
Thirdly and finally most teens don't know what love is. Love is patient, love kind. Love is blind and love is not jealous. Most teens claim to be in love/are in relationships just to be seen in the community.Most girls ( and even older women to a certain extent) are in relationships just for the money. I mean there is no romance without finance, however women tend make the finance part their priority. And not to lie, us as boys also don't know what love is , in most cases we just date girls just to certisfy out our sexual pleasures.
Not to just attack the young girls. Even older women have their " problems". I personally have realized that women like to put most if not all the blame on man. For example ( most probably you have heard this one a lot), a women is cheating on a man and she further claims that it's the MAN's fault that SHE is cheating.
I hereby conclude by saying teenagers can't experience the same love as adults.
Jameira Young
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a very strong topic. I myself never really experienced it. I believe that it makes a lot of teens stressful. Teenage love can also be a controversial. Parents may disagree with the idea of love for their child period! Teenage love is a powerful topic it may cause fights in the future. Teen love can be just as real as adults love if so maybe even stronger. Reason being is because teens have long relationships that can be longer than adults and they learn more and enjoy their partners company. Some kids aren’t ready for teen love it can cause them to be depressing. Also the teens and parents may not really know the meaning of love and they might cause heartbreaks by saying it to various people. Some reasons for teenage love is they find it in their teen life because they don’t feel loved at home. Teenagers may do drastic things to feel loved disgrace their bodies.
• Take abuse from their boyfriends or girlfriends.
Date older men or women to feel like someone cares for them. Teenage love and adult love has problems. Just because you’re in a relationship doesn’t mean you’re in love. Teenage love can be as real as adult love because teens can get a job and provide for their lover. They can also live together (if their parents allow them). Teenage love can also be healthy in different ways. I think teenage love is not really a problem. So I think teenage love and adult love is both just as real. Love in my opinion cannot be fake. Many teens make mistakes by saying I love you to early and then regret it later on in the relationship!. So basically love is love if someone says they love you enjoy it and be grateful with the strong words that’s coming out of he or she’s mouth. It shouldn’t be any issues when teens say I love you to another teen if that’s how they feel then so be it. So to conclude yes teen love is just as real as adults
Christal Dewberry
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teens are still young and they don’t know what they want yet. It’s similar to picking out careers or what you want to be when you grow up. You examine the careers that are out there. You then look into the careers that interest you or you still unsure of what the career you want to have. It’s just like relationship. You find a guy/ girl that interest you however, at this time you’re not looking in about 5 or 10 years of how your relationship going to be like. Most teen relationship focuses on the present not the future. I’m not saying teens can’t “like” each other because teens can and they going through the stage of seeing a person more as a friend or boyfriend/girlfriend material. However, teen love is just a practice of how relationships are in the real world. Some relationship will last more than others.
Some teens in this generation are immature. This tells parents that some teens are not responsible enough to not even date a person yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are very overprotective of their children. They still see us as little kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year old in high school. Some teenage love end up like an adult relationship meaning teens talk about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc most time without the parent knowing. This is another reason why parents think teenage love like adult love is wrong.
The ending of a teenage love relationships give the signal that parents don’t want their children being in a relationship. The “break-up” of the relationship usually involve cursing, depression, anger, etc. This show that the relationship wasn’t about love. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that has been use in relationship to please the partner or brag about it to your friends saying that you’re in a relationship to make yourself look better by your friend eyes. If you really love that person, you wouldn’t do anything to hurt them verbally, physically or mentally.
Some teens want to be in this relationship because they don’t feel love and they look for love in the wrong places. They think that the partner love them and then in the end, they may regret being with that person because of different reasons. The most known reasons are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quickly, etc. In conclusion, teenage love is not as real as adult love. Teens wait until you say “I’m in love” and at the end you going to regret it probably for the rest of your life.
Yes I agree that teenage love is the same as adult love. The reason why I agree is because love is just a strong feeling .People fall in love at many stages. Its different levels of love but. Love is one word and is equal weather you are young or old. Teenage hormones are to as running wild and this is very much the case. Teenage is a confusing place to be because you are not old enough to be called mature and you are not too young to be called a child. It’s the same thing with adult they had to go threw teenage love to get to adult love. That the reason why I said it’s all the Same. With the modern world, more and more teens are making choices when it comes to sex just the same as adults do. Teen have the same love problems as adults have. Love at adult and teenage rate is just the same. My opinion love is a strong feeling about your mate. Love is that first feeling you feel before all the bad stuff gets in the way. Most teenager relationships doesn’t last longer than adults because teenagers are not strong like adults and not smart enough to let petty stuff get between their love.Most teens fall in love to fast.One minute it would be "i love you" and then they will regret it.Thats my reason why i say that teenage love is the same as adults.
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ReplyDeleteNo, why you ask? Because teenaged loves have its limits, Adults are pretty much limitless. They are not tied down by parents or school; they also aren’t tied down by sudden pregnancies. If a teenage love is true it can sometimes be cut down by the parents (if they choose so). To me, teenage love can never really meet the standards of adult love. So rules are in teenage love, but adult love can be endless.
Another thing is the difference is long distance love. Picture both an adult and teen lovers trying to contact each other from across the country or globe. If a teenage wanted to try to visit or stay with their true love, a percentage of parents would definitely not allow it since probably they don’t want their son/daughter over seas to someone they don’t know or a stranger in their house. Adult love is only the slight same thing; adults are able to visit their love without permission with a parent due to being over the age of 18.
Teenage love also has its benefits though; I believe that teenage love couples are more compatible then adult couples (without eHarmony). Teenaged couples can also decide on what they want to learn in school together, or just drop out (bad idea). Adult love can be difficult if both lovers’ jobs are working long hours or one works in the morning and one works at night. Another thing can also lead into a Mr. and Mrs. Smith thing if both of their jobs are rivals, but is still believe teenage love is less real then adult love due to its down factors.
I believe that teenage love could possibly be equal to adult love, but not in this generation. Nowadays, the word love is thrown around like a ball. People use it as if it has no real meaning. What people don't know is that the word "love" is actually a very strong and powerful word. believe it or not, love can make people do crazy things. Being a teenager myself, i know that teens are known to get really caught up in the moment when it comes to relationships and such. Love is a very strong feeling, but the only reason most teens say that they're in love is because they've never felt such strong feelings for a person. But when they realize that their romantic feelings are stronger than they have been before, they just assume its love. Adults and teens may have similar problems sometimes, but there is a serous difference between an adult and a teen. Most of the time, adults base their attraction to on another on something on more of a physical level. Teens should not be basing their attractions on anything past the physical appearance of the face, but unfortunately we have teens who are way past that. I believe that you can't possibly love someone else if you don't have the self respect to love yourself. I myself am in a relationship where the feelings are way stronger than usual, and i find myself thinking of that person ALL the time. Luckily for me, the feeling is mutual. There really isn't even a physical level my relationship is on beyond hand-holding and the occasional arm around the shoulder or waist. I do exchange "I love you's" with my significant other, because I feel like he really does love me, and I do feel if i let my feelings develop more it could be love. But back to the topic, the teens in my generation aren't mature enough for love, although you get the occasional few who don't still belong in 2nd grade. And even adults have changed their standards when it comes to love. People will love just about anyone nowadays. So in conclusion, I do not think that teen love is as real as adult love. However I do think that teen love is just a minimized version of adult love 70 or 80 times less powerful.
ReplyDeleteTeenage Love… it’s a complicated subject. I would have to say that I don’t think that teenage love is the same as adult love. When you’re a teenager you’re easily influenced by all kinds of things. I don’t think that teenagers really know what love is. I think they know what strong feelings are and they confuse that with love. Strong feelings and love are two very different things. When you meet someone, as a teenager odds are you aren’t going to keep in contact when you are an adult. Most likely you will forget about this person as soon as you finish college. You may remember this person sometimes when you reflect on your life but then the memories will vanish and you’ve forgotten about said person. I think that there are way more important things to worry about than teenage love and the drama that comes with it.
ReplyDeleteWith teenage love the issue of maturity comes into effect. How many teenagers are ready to settle down already and be tied to one person? Not many I think, teenagers want the freedom to roam wherever they feel and feel no consequences. You have your whole life to be a settled down married person. Why lock yourself in now? This is your time to explore your options, find the type of person that you know that you’re going to want to spend the rest of your life with. This is also the time where you should be trying to find out who you are. You can’t try to learn about someone if you know nothing about yourself.
If I were to go on and say that adult love is realer than teenage love I would be wrong. The truth is no one knows how two people feel about one another. Love is love no matter what age you are. The only thing different between adult love and teenage love is the problems that come along with this choice. If you are a teenager and you’re ready to take this huge leap of faith, then by all means do it. But just be ready for this adult love that you’re getting involved in.
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ReplyDeleteAn individual’s love and feelings can not be fraudulent because of their age. To begin with, there is not a big difference between an adult and a teenager. An adult is only an individual, whom has grown to their full size. A teenager, on the other hand, has a lot of physical development needed to be done. Love is a strong feeling that two people feel amongst each other. If people truly love one another, the ability to tolerate their partner on his/her bad days will be no problem because the love is stronger than one misfortunate day.
ReplyDeleteLove is about a lot of things, but to really condense love into one word, it would be maturity. There are two types of maturities which are: physical maturity and mental maturity. Physical maturity is when an individual’s body has fully developed. Mental maturity is the point in one’s life, when he/she can learn to be humble and respectful.
The common opinion for teenage love is “they are too young” or “they do not know what they are feeling”. Failed teenage love seems to be ubiquitous through out this generation and is gradually proliferating. Early teenage pregnancies and unknown fathers are examples of failed attempts of teenage love. Many people decline teenage love because of the large numbers of failed teenage love. There is a reason why some teenage loves failed. There was a lack of maturity.
The time an individual matures is clearly unpredictable. The most common thought is that an individual is mentally mature when he/she is over the age of twenty-one. This is not true. Age does not determine maturity. One may seem mature because he/she has a lot of experience, but that does not guarantee the individual is truly mature. Think about this: If a person does not go to school or interact with people for twenty one years from birth to present and has no educational experience and is very rude, is he/she mature?
There is no age limit to maturity and by the time an individual is mature, then he/she can truly love someone and know what they are feeling. Teenage can indeed be just as real as adult love.
Do I believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love?
ReplyDeleteI do believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love; it just depends on the people who say they are in love. Many teenagers may know how to define the word love and because they know the definition they just assume they are. One thing we teenagers have a habit of, is getting mixed up with the word love and lust. Lust is just a slight stronger way of saying I like you a lot because, you are either pretty/handsome, you dress nice, or you make me laugh. When love has a much stronger reason; not just because of your looks or the way you dress, but the way you carry yourself and your personality. Teenagers may be in love because, some think and act mature. In my generation its very rear to find a teenage couple that’ is actually in love then instead of just sprung. Some teenagers may be in a relationship calling it love but one may only be in love with the other. A perfect example would be; a boy and a girl is dating and the girl tells the boy she loves him, yes he is going to say it back but most of them do not mean it, or he may be cheating (vise versa). Some boys may just use the word “love” just to use the girl physically, but don’t realize that when they do use the word love it is more mental, it makes the girl think you actually care about her feelings and do not want her for just sex. I believe that some adults are just as venerable because, just like most teens when they hear I love you they get excited and believe it right away. Believe it or not adult love is not always real love!; If adult love was real, then there wouldn’t be a need for divorces, and people in relationships would not get abused by there pier. SOME adults on the other hand are not as venerable as teens, because they have already been through it, you can say they are more prepared. I also believe that adult relationships are better, more romantic because they have no limits to anything they would want to do.
To conclude my opinion would be, yes teen love is real; but we just do not have as much of an understanding to what adults have.
No I do not think that teenage love is as real as adult love because as a maturing adolescent you are naturally an emotional person. For instance when a male teenager sees a female walking around in the neighborhood he won’t even notice her face, he would most likely be staring at her chest or other parts of her body, all except what really matters. When the guy finally decides that he likes what he sees then he will try to go and talk to the girl and make it seem that he likes her personality and interested in what she is thinking when in reality he just want to get her in bed. It’s not just guys the same thing applies to the female teenagers too. When a female sees a guy walking around the neighborhood she will first notice his shoes or if he has a car or not. When the girl finally decides that she can benefit from being with the guy then she will try to talk to him and make it seem that she really likes him when in reality she just wants him for his money. In conclusion when a teen says that they love somebody it’s really just their emotions getting in the way of their logic judgment.
ReplyDeleteNo I do not think that teenage love is as real as adult love because as a maturing adolescent you are naturally an emotional person. For instance when a male teenager sees a female walking around in the neighborhood he won’t even notice her face, he would most likely be staring at her chest or other parts of her body, all except what really matters. When the guy finally decides that he likes what he sees then he will try to go and talk to the girl and make it seem that he likes her personality and interested in what she is thinking when in reality he just want to get her in bed. It’s not just guys the same thing applies to the female teenagers too. When a female sees a guy walking around the neighborhood she will first notice his shoes or if he has a car or not. When the girl finally decides that she can benefit from being with the guy then she will try to talk to him and make it seem that she really likes him when in reality she just wants him for his money. In conclusion when a teen says that they love somebody it’s really just their emotions getting in the way of their logic judgment. shaafiy s.
ReplyDeleteTo me all love is the same. Whether its young love or old love. Most adults don’t even know how to handle their relationships as well as some teens. This four letter word has everyone head stuck on a cloud. Teenage love can be as strong as adult love. Their going through the same issues, and feel the same way about each other just as adults do. Teen relationships are hard, they may look like something childish in an adult’s eye but it’s usually just as serious. We teenagers tend to like having relationships where we get to love and be treated with love when we can’t get it elsewhere. I personally think there isn’t much of a difference to how adults and teenagers love. We all have a heart that wants to be loved.
ReplyDeleteSome teens call their mate their 'Hubby or Wifey' we know we aren’t married it's just that we have that kind of love for each other.
Teen love helped me realize that I can be responsible. It doesn’t make me feel grown it just makes me feel like I got somebody that got my back. Someone that is there for me. Just like adults, they get married, Make babies and Just love. So what’s wrong with teenagers just starting off little early?
What I’m trying say is teenage love can be just a real as adult love. Because all it is, is two people loving each other.
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ReplyDeleteMy name is ShaQuanna. I do believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love. The reason for that being is because most adults say that teenagers can’t feel love. I believe so; I think it matter based on what you feel in your heart. Most adults did not fall in love until they were also a teenager. I think no matter what your age, you are always as capable and willing to love. People may think its teen lust they feel, but everyone feels it, just like everyone would feel love. For exampleWhile few expect teen love to last a life time that hardly makes it less real. Half or more of all adult doesn't last a lifetime either. Teen loves very real and powerful. Perhaps at no other time in our lives are the joys and pains felt as strongly, or experienced more deeply. Who among us, after all, can ever forget our first love? The first love which has happened during your teen age cannot be totally forgotten. Love is just as strong and sometimes confusing at any age. Even adults can think they're in love sometimes when they're just infatuated. But supposedly, an adult should have more of a clear head concerning who is good for them because their hormones are in check and they have more life experience. This is not always true.
It is insulting for someone to tell you you're not feeling love because of your age. Sometimes adults and parents inadvertently belittle your feelings because they're concerned about your future. They might see something wrong with your chosen person or situation based on something they know because of their own life experiences. Keep the lines of communication open; if they love you, they don't mean to insult you. I believe that teenage love is the first step to developing normal healthy relationships in the future. I've heard many people on TV talk how they will never forget their first love. Maybe that's because it taught them how to love. So perhaps teenage love is a steppingstone toward the paths we may choose in our lives. Love, whether new or old, is a way to share important things with a person you are close to and trust. All people need that. Teenagers need love more than anyone. Who else better to get love from than another teenager who's going through the same transitions that you are? Who's to say what kind of love is valid? All love is valid? This is what they had to say.
Christal Dewberry
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Teenage Love? versus Adult love?
ReplyDeleteWow. This is The most confusing topic because of the fact that everyone has different feelings. The Teen who thinks they are in love might feel that teenage love is exactly the same while The Single Teen may feel Adults are the only people who can experience love. Adults may say "eww, these kids are 2 grown talking bout they in love. They dont know what LOVE is" no disrespect but do you even know what love is.
Adults are always against teen love because they say we are not acting appropriate for our age. They should understand the feeling being that they was once a love sprung teenage themselves. I highly doubt any of them waited until they were out of college for their first kiss or first boyfriend. They should be understanding to the whole teenage love concept.
My opinion is that your age doesnt control your feelings. Doesnt matter if your 16 or 21 you can still feel however you want about a person.
When a Teenage girl falls in love she feels light on her feet, she's always happy and she wants this feeling to last forever. The boy on the other is One Track Minded. He's determined to trick the girl into spreading her legs. (Well, not all boys but 4 out of 5.)A Girl develops A mature mind while a boy's imature mind is still focused on playing "booty tag" in the playground. They dont look at it as playing with the girls feelings they just wanna turn everything into a one night stand.
Adults are different. The man has finnally developed his mature mind. He may be ready to start a Family and get married. Some men may still be dogs chasing skirts all day and all night. Some are really focused on working and taking care of his family.Adults have no limit to their relationships . If they choose to have kids they can care for them and not worry about still going to school. They can get married and get a job and live life peacefully.
in closing, My Whole point is that Teenagers And Adults Both Experience REAL love but Adults have a better chance. Your age doesnt determine they way you feel.
Signed A Victim of Teenage Love =)
Briana Gil
ReplyDeleteI disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be a real as adult love because teenagers don’t know what they really want. And adults already know what they look for in a soul mate. When you’re an adult you have more experience on what love really is. You’ll know how a relationship should be. Teenagers might think that they’re in love, but they’re really not. All they do is argue and make each others lives more harder then it is. When teenagers talk to their parents about that one person they “love” their parents don’t approve of it. They either think they’re to young, or tell them that it’s a bunch of nonsense. Some people might say how much they love someone and how great they are, but what someone doesn’t know is that what they might be feeling for that person isn’t love. Yeah they might be really attracted to someone and feel they like the person a lot, but it takes a lot to love someone. I myself once thought I was in love. I felt like nothing in the world would break us apart. And that he would be there forever. But as a few months past I noticed nothing was the same as the beginning. Everything started to fad away. When we broke up, I was really hurt, and tried to figure out where I went wrong or where her went wrong. But then I realized that it wasn’t love at all. And that I let my heart take over my thoughts, and listened to what my heart said, and not what my mind said. But now I know that I’ll just wait until its my time to fall in love. Love is when you can trust someone and have really strong feelings for them. When you tell each other the truth. But nowadays you don’t see teenagers do that. Couples are constantly playing with each others feelings, disrespecting each other, or lying to each other. Some guys are always treating girls like if they were one of his guy friends. And some girls like it when guys treat them like that. Some girls take abuse from they’re boyfriends and claim that they play around that way. I don’t think that’s good in a relationship. This goes for adult love as well. Some adults abuse each other for no reason. Love can be complicated, it can be lovely, it can hurt a lot, or it wont hurt at all.
I think aldut love is not the same as teenage love beacuse we have a lot to learn in life . When you are a teenager you get heart broken boys walk in and out of your life . When you get older the same things happen but you will know how to handel it .Love is a strong word at the age of 14 to 19 . I personally feel when you pass 30 you will be able to feel a lot of things you never felt and know a lot of things you didn't when you were a teenager . Love can do a lot of things to you when your young . Some kids say they are in love but mostly in lust .When you young you really don't know and understand what that word means until you felt and lived it . I mean alduts do more things that teenagers don't well then again they do which is have sex . Sex is an aldut move but that comes with the stage of love beacuse when you feel you love someone you would love to give them your all and have inner course with them .So there for I feel teenage love and adult love are way different.
ReplyDeleteSo the question is If Teenage Love Can Be Just As Real As Adult Love ? In my opinion yes it really can. Love Is Love No matter what age or mind state you have love and that feeling you get about or towards someone is going to be there. Many adult's are in love with or married to one of their high school crush. With that being how could you say that love back then as a teenager wasn't real when you are still in love with that someone as an adult. Now I'm not saying this question is completely wrong but i feel a lot of people should look deep into this topic. Many teenagers think they know what love is when they really don't. The same goes for adults too.
ReplyDeleteBasically, No matter what age you are, how you feel is how you feel. If you love someone deeply then thats just real love. Age isn't anything but a number and love is real for whoever truly feels it.
Hope I Answered your blog. Bye :)
Christal Dewberry
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
Christal Dewberry
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is a controversial topic between young people and adults/parents. I have to disagree. I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love. Some teen today don’t know what they want yet. Being in a teen relationship is like finding a career or what you to be when you grow up. When you look into different careers, you look into that career that interest you or you are still unsure of what career you want. It’s just like a relationship. You find a girl/guy that interest you or still unsure if you want to date that person. However, you not looking 5 or 10 years from now. I’m not saying teen can “like” each other because they can and they are going through that stage of looking at a person more as a friend or girlfriend/boyfriend material. Teen relationships are just a practice for the real world. Some relationship would last than others.
Most teens in this generation are immature. This is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date yet alone having a relationship like two adults. Most parents (like mine) are overprotective. They still see just as kids playing in the park instead of 14, 15, 16, or 17 year olds in high school. Teen relationship as adult love can be teens “acting” like they are an adult couple such as talking about having kids, living together, dropping out of school, etc without the parent knowing. Some teen are not responsible or respectful to adults that may have gone through this “adult love” and telling the teens to not make the same mistake they did.
The breakup of a teen relationship is another reason why parents don’t want their children to date. The ending of a relationship result in fighting, cursing, anger, etc. The partner probably ends up hating the person because of several of reason and what cause the relationship to break up. Most reasons for breaking up are cheating on that person, having sexual relation too quick, etc. “I love you” are 3 powerful words that have been used just to brag about your relationship to your friends, to make the partner feel better about themselves, etc. With age come wisdom that’s why adult love last longer than teen love.
In conclusion, I don’t think teenage love can be real as adult love. Teen are still growing up and still knowing of how they real world going to be like. So teen don’t get into a relationship too fast or say “I love you”. You might end up hating that person you once “loved”.
In my opinion teenage love is not the same as adult love. Teen love can be described as ‘’puppy love’’. Teen love to me, is based on physical attraction, where as adult love is much more serious and goes beyond physical attraction, especially from a male point of view. In our generation having a girlfriend is like having a new pair of sneaker s, that’s what’s hot right now but as soon as the next pair of sneakers comes out in a different color that’s what you want. In other words all it takes is a girl with better ‘’assets ‘’ and the guy is gone. As a result this is why most teenage relationships don’t last very long, If you ask the average fifteen or sixteen year old ‘’What’s the longest relationship you have been in ? Most likely they might say two or three months, an adult may look at that situation and say to themselves ‘’in two months I just figured his or her hobbies or favorite things’’. Adults take the time to actually get to know each other before they rush into a relationship. Also the mentality of an adult is different because they want to know each other mentally 1st , emotionally 2nd, and last, physically. But most importantly as a teen your still trying to find yourself , which is why in teen relationships you see a lot of insecurities such as a girl having a problem with her boyfriend being friends with another girl or a guy having a problem with the way his girlfriend looks at another guy. Now don’t get me wrong some adults also have the same insecurities but it is more common in teenage relationships. This also doesn’t mean that a teenage relationship can’t manifest into a serious relationship but that depends on the maturity level of the two individuals involved. It also depends on how well the two people can tolerate each other because everyday is not going to be a walk in the park and there will be times when your girlfriend or boyfriend gets on your absolute last nerve. In conclusion teen love is not same as adult love but if the two individuals can work through each others insecurities and stay committed to each other than it can be come the same as adult love.
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion I think teenage love can't be as real love as adult love for a couple reasons because teenagers have not been around and not exprience things adult had in life. I think teenagers think their in love, but it only lust.I think adult love is a matter of you understanding your partner and knowing what your partner is capable of
ReplyDeletedoing.Also knowing their boundaries.Like what Nigel said teenage love have it limit whether it from your friends or even your parents. Also
what teenagers think is love is hormones explosive.
Teengers love can' t be as real adult love. Starting with the realitionship itself. If you with a person just to sleep with them .That not love and just plain wanting to have sex with them, like teenagers today that what they do. They tell him/ her they love them just to have the bragging rights of sleeping with that person for your popularity or other reason. In most adult relationship is the oppsite your in the relationship because you love that person unless you in a relationship for some other reason (kids, money, etc) that the reason.
I look at it is if you don't love a person why you in a reationship you waste that person time and yours.
Like Nigel said teenagers love have limits. One is maybe from his/her her parent like some parnt may not like or just don't want him her in a relationship.Also friends can't limited a teengers relationship like choosing to hang with your friends all time over your boy/girl friends is not love because if you
love that person you spending alot of time with that person and that with majority of teenagers do.FINally a teenager love cant be as real is a adult because teenager faces the reality of hormones and at that age your hormones exploded.That my opinion bye Keyonna A.
I feel like adult love is stronger but than again so is teenage love.My reason for this is because adults were around longer so they have more experience on what love is than what teens know,but i also disagree because most adults relationships started in high school. So to me love is love no matter what age shape or shoe size if you have somebody who makes you feel like the world revolves around you and they make sure your good at all times then thats love. Most adults sometimes dont know what love is either because they play as much games as teenagers do but the way i feel is if you have that special person that will hold you down no matter what the case may be then thats love. Love is also when you and your boyfriend or girlfriend are having trouble and yall stop dating but every time you go out with somebody they get mad i feel thats love to because its something about you that he still cares for and its something about him that you still care about.
ReplyDeleteBut to conclude my opinion love is love no matter what.
KENNY HAYNES,
ReplyDeleteLove is something that you see everyday. With adults and also teenagers. The question is, can teenager love be as real as adult love? No I don’t think that teenager love can be the same as adult love at all. Adults have more experience in their life. Teenagers are too young and immature to understand what real love is. This is a point of their life were all of there hormones are raging and teenagers do dumb things and fall in “love”.
I think when some teenagers say they are in love with another partner they are blinded by this love. Love is an extremely powerful thing that affects people feelings and way of thinking. Teenagers are too young to understand that, with all of their hormones going on. That’s why teenager love cannot be the same as adult love. Adults are more mature and their hormones aren’t as high as teenagers. Adults are more serious about love than teenagers, and teenagers take love as puppy love.
Another thing is that adults learn from their mistakes so they won’t make new ones. Which in teenagers haven’t made their mistakes yet so would easily fall in love, and not know what they are getting into. Most of the times with teenager it’s mostly about sex. That can also make a teenager fall in love with someone. Most adults wouldn’t rush into sex, they would settle down first and get to know each other, and that’s true love.
On the other hand, teenagers need to learn from their mistakes so they can become more mature. Every adult was a teenager before and am sure they were probably in “love” with someone too and made the same mistakes teenagers are making right now. That’s exactly why teenager love cannot be the same as adult love, because they have to learn from their mistake. And those mistakes they make, made them understand love more. Everyone needs that experience to comprehend what love really is. When they learn from their mistakes they would finally find out what love really is.
Marvin Clarke
ReplyDeleteNo I don’t think teenage love can be as real as adult love because teenagers can say that they love someone but sometimes it’s not true, For Example a boy sees a girl that they think is cute and they talk her up and get to go out with and a couple of days later that boy tell the girl that he love her but he does not even know much about her. This usually happens to certain teenager’s boys and girls they would do something like that without even checking if they have something in common with that person that they are dating. Some Adults do the same thing but others know the true meaning to the word “Love”, when you say that you love someone you have to really feel that way for that person and the person has to feel the same way about you and you also have to create a common bond with your lover.
Another reason why I say no is because adult have the privilege to see there boyfriend/girlfriend without asking or someone having a problem with their date, in teenage love parents think they have the rights to tell us who to date or not date or when we can see our date. Whoever we date is our decision because at the end of the day we have to be with that person, I understand that our parents are looking out for our love life but if they have train their children to choose the right love partner then they have nothing to worry about. Adults live in a different world then teenagers because teenagers fall in love to easily and they don’t really understand the true meaning of love. Love is a strong emotion that boys, girl, male and female feel when they have a strong connection with the person that they are dating. People should not play with their lovers emotions because you say you love someone then you don’t men it the other person will feel heartbroken and that person heartbroken will never trust you again, they don’t want to feel this pain again. So I conclude that people should think about how they feel, how much connection they have and have a person might feel before they make a decision and say “ I love You” to their partner and I do not think that teenage love is real as adult love.
Hi my name is Akeiba Rollins. I believe teen love is somewhat real as adult love. But then in some ways people look at it different. It can be real but teenage love is more puppy love than the ones that adults have we are still playful and less serious. Some teen might look at relationship as just having a boyfriend to just have one. At time teen love wouldn't be serious because teen love might only last for a few months. Such as adult it more experience in adult love and it a lot you have to put into adult love. With adult love it comes with more responsibility. Adult take their relationship serious where adult work half and half to help each other through needs and like helping out with bills and what not. Teens relationship don’t last for very long Teen do the kissing or going out and just spending time with each You know how teen are "That my baby” or "That my world". Most time people say teen love don't last at all or even in high school. So much of problems happen where rumors come along and in times feeling change. But then parents think teenager doesn’t really know what love is. Some only think about themselves and what they want. Some think its love because of lack of attention from somewhere else and they are getting it from that one person. Even if you are a teen it's a lot of work. You are getting older so feeling will change soon as u become a adult and how you will look at relationship might be different when you was a teen or might not be. For teens and adult there always Temptation where in most teen life things like this happen. But you know it life and you are young and at that age you might not want settle because you still want to talk to other girls. You know noting wouldn't change in adult mind. Teenage might have their limits and adult don't but still anything happen with teenage love. Teens do rush into doing adult thing. Even if people just might see something wrong with the person you are with. Love is love but it all depends on the type of love you have with that persons. But you know how parents are they always want to pick the right guy for you. In this world there isn't any Mr. Right. As long he fits your needs and your happiness then you are good. Every relationship doesn’t work out right at time because it either the female feeling a different way about that person or the guy cheated one out of them two you know the most common problem when a relationship goes wrong. Love could also have so much affects on it because at time when you are in love with someone and you always want that person around you just like teenage do if you are in love.
ReplyDeleteYes, I do believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love simply because love doesn’t pick ages. I feel that no matter what age you are you can still be in love. Adults feel that teenagers are too young for love that they may not know what love is or that were not really in love. I don’t think that the two could really be compared because I think that the two are equal and love is love. I also think that teenage love doesn’t last as long as adult love simply because of lack of experience. People say that it’s not love its just raging hormones. But I don’t think the way you feel should always have something to do with happening in your body. I wouldn’t say that teenage love isn’t real compared to adult love I would just say that it is different because of experience, which sometimes has to do with how old you are. Another thing that I would like to point out is that even though were a teenager doesn’t mean were all the same some teenagers are immature and not serious about it and their relationship will end quickly and fail, relationships fail for many important reason like the cheating and other problems but I think those are the most important ones in teenage love . But other teenagers are really in love and are serious about their feelings. I think that certain things in a relationship make it real and determine if you really love each other. I think that those are the things that make it real not age nor being a teenager the way you really feel and how serious you are about it should make it real. Another thing that I would like to point out is that just because your romantically involved with someone doesn’t mean that your in love you might be going out with them or different things like for example one thin would be money you might be going out for what they have or what they could buy you. so yes I think that teenage love is just as real as adult love but it depends on if you are really in love or if you are serious about it.
ReplyDeleteI do not think that teenage love can be as real as adults. First of all, most teenager minds are too immature to know what love is. They act on their feelings and do the wildest things even to the extent of harming themselves.
ReplyDeleteTo most teens, love is all about sex and it is not uncommon to hear both boys and girls bragging about it. I’m sure most people hear them on the trains, on the buses, even in the classroom. Constantly teens are presumed into sexual behaviors. Teens who do not want to live up to their expectations face constant heckling and a word like “virgin” becomes a taunting word.
If teens love is ever real, there will be more respect. Today they refer to each other by all kinds of derogatory names and they think that’s so cool. Do teens experience real love when they sought after the popular girls and boys and constantly compete with each other?
Some might argue that love is love, but I think real love comes with maturity when people are old enough to really appreciate, respect and care for each other other.
Do I believe that teenage love can be as real as adult love ? Well to answer this question, I feel that teenage love can be as real as adult love. Even though adults are more experienced, us teenagers are getting to that age where we start to have different feelings and start to understand more about love. Some adult relationships are not always serious and some adults still don't know the true meaning of love. Even though us teenagers are young, we also have feelings and we do start to love. In some adult relationships, women tend to get beat and not treated right and those women think that's love but its not and that shows that some adults just don't know the true meaning of love. I feel that love is just love and anybody can love. Love has no age to it. Even though teenagers are less mature then adults we still have feelings and we cannot control those feelings. Also, some teenagers are even smarter then some adults and that can tell you a lot. Even though we are teenagers, we are old enough to feel what we are feeling. Love is just a feeling so that means it goes adults and even teenagers.
ReplyDeleteAs you can see, I feel that teenage love can be as real as adult love ") .
I feel that love is love no matter what age. As one of the most used quotes and most common heard, age does not matter. Its been used through out life over and over. Some of the strongest relationships are actually formed from high school and those high school sweet hearts tend to get married. Also if you think about it what does love mean?? How can you say who has love and who doesnt. Its all about your definition of love. Love is the will to do anything for a person, to give what you can and do all for that person. Teenagers experience that along with adults. Love is a feeling that can be shared between anyone and anything. Even animals share love with a mate they share for a life time. Love for teens and adults are the same no matter which way you put it. Teenagers get their hearts broken over what they thought was love and so do adults. Adults get heart broken all the time of what they think is love. I have seen adults weep and sob over some one they loved that broke up with them. I have seen adults hide in their house and just eat ice cream looking at pictures. Love is any where and is in any age. It all depends if you find it.
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Well as you can see I didn't quite complete the minimal 500 words so i will continue on with this one. Love for both is the same, both suffer bad break ups, most of what people call ''love isn't really love, its just infatuation, they are just loving for the moment. 20% of married couples were high school sweet hearts. The other 80% are adults that will suffer a divorce from the next 3-5 years of their relation ship. Love is rarely found but when it is, it can be in any age. Adult love has a larger foundation more structure, while teens just go with the flow. Even with the structural support adults claim to have it still gets destroyed. Adults still cheat and sleep around even though they believed it would never happened. Love is a word that most use just because they feel it was the other wants to hear. Love is proven over time,the will to stay with the other should get stronger the longer they have been together. Love doesn't break if it really is true. This is my outtake on what love is.
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Juvanee Jackson
ReplyDeleteTeenage Love And Adult Love Is Both Interested Topics; and I believe that teenage love can be Just As Real As adult love an at times its just not. Even Thought I’ve Never Experience teenage love myself from what I’ve witness from both teenage and adults I believe that it takes time to love a person its not something you can rush into and I see a lot of that everyday.
If you ask me there’s a difference and Non-Differences in both teenage love and adult love butt however I think both teens and adults have there moments when they rush into love by getting caught up in the moment it might feel like love at first butt after a while it starts to get harder and harder. With teen love you have so much to learn and we can be influenced by what we think or have an idea of what love is and it can end horrible if were not ready for what is thrown at us.
I think With Adult Love Most adults Have more experience with sex, life and love than teens so they know the do’s and don’ts and what real love is and where till learning, we till have more growing to do mistakes to make and mistakes to learn from. In relationships not everything is handled the mature way with both adults and teens that’s what makes our love alike.
This is a huge debate if you ask me and I don’t have all the answers to this question to this but just what I know ; but it’s a 50/50 answer something’s in teen love adults can relate to and same with teens I believe there’s no right or wrong answers to this question/topic.
Kendra Thomas
ReplyDeleteSimple question, do I believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love? I do believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love. Your age doesn’t define the way you feel about someone and or the way they feel about you. For example if you have an older sister and you both love your mother, is your older sisters love realer than yours just because she’s older? Of course not, I think older people just have a few things that would make a relationship last longer than most teenagers do. Those things are having the ability to go where ever you want to go and when ever you want to go. As well as most likely having more experience in relationships, being older gives you the great privilege of spending alone time with that one special person you love. Also being older most likely makes you want a commitment with someone, so petty stuff like hugging someone or being around someone a lot will not make an older person get as jealous as a younger person. Even if the older person does get as jealous it won’t be as big of a problem; because of the knowledge they have in relationships they would probably handle their partnership in a more mature way. Though this is if both adults want the relationship to work, I’m not saying that teenagers won’t want there relationship to work. I’m just saying they have more distractions and more problems in there life that would cause a relationship to end. Some of the definitions of love (a strong positive emotion of regard and affection, any object of warm affection or devotion, and have a great affection or liking for.) None of theses definitions or definitions I have seen mentions anything about age. It didn’t say though love is something grand and special you have to be this old ___ for it to actually count. Only you know how you feel and though I do believe that its easier for an adult to be in a relationship that was not the question. Love is love no matter what age skin color or gender. No one knows how you feel only you do. Sure many adults will say well your just a teen you don’t know what love is, really well how do they know what it is. To me love is a very good, pure and strong feeling you have about someone, though that’s just me define it however you might like.
I don't think teenage love could be the same as adult love.When your an adult there won't be as many chances to find that special person so you end up taking relationships more serious.But as a teenager you can stay with someone for as long as you want and just leave that person if they start to get annoying.Teenage love is more like a do it because you can,if the worst happens just leave and start over again.As a teenager you can fall in love with as many people as you want because you have the rest of your life ahead of you,so you shouldn't have to worry about staying with one person for a week, a month,or maybe even a year.Some people find their soul-mates during their teenage years so good for them....But love as a teenager is mostly a test run to find out the type of person whose best for you.If you really cared for someone but they don't feel the same way,the best you could do is shrug it off and keep trying again.As an adult since you can't meet new people everyday you might have to take your relationship more serious and can't just rule someone out because of some minor disturbance.
ReplyDeleteI believe under certain circumstances that teenage love is the same as adult love. I believe they are the same type of love because once a teenager is mature enough to realize they have fell in love it becomes adult love. Some teenagers may be immature, maybe even most are immature. But most teenagers have grown up to meet their partner that they might possibly be with forever. I’ve heard of high school sweet hearts. And, all that is, is teenage love. I believe that as a teenager you can fall in love and, as an adult you can fall in love as well.
ReplyDeleteLove is love. And, when anyone finds it they hold on to it. Age does not have anything to do with love. May I say from personal experience it takes two to love even at a young age. You can find yourself loving at a very young age. Love is hard to find and may also take time for one to find it. But from my opinion you find love quicker when you’re younger then when you are older. The young love becomes adult love. You may love someone more than you do yourself. Plenty of teenagers fell in love. And those same teenagers have become adults and still love one another the same as when they were those simple young individuals. Love takes time it does not rush itself. Although most teenagers are immature, love in certain cases makes them grow up quicker.
When your young you may find your first love. Some people may confuse love. You may like someone a lot but that does not mean that you love a person. This may happen to teenagers, it may also happen to adults. They confuse love with lust. They are two different words and have two different meanings. Lust is liking someone a lot. Love is a stronger meaning. Love is putting someone before yourself, possibly dieing for this person, doing everything and anything you can for this person. Love is meeting someone you know you don’t want to ever loose and someone you want to be with forever. So is teenage love the same as adult love? Yes I believe so. I’ve experienced it as a teenager. And any other teenager may experience it. So yes I believe that they are the same.
The word "love" can be tossed around in all relationships once in a while. As for teenage love being as real as adult love, I agree that it can be. This all depends on the two individuals involved in the relationship. When a person finds that significant other who makes them happy shouldn't that be considered love? Yet, adults do have the upper hand of having more experience to deal with love, heartbreak, etc, but MATURE teens are able to grasp these concepts and understand things on how to keep away from this or try to make sure it doesn’t happen to them. To me love is love no matter if your 15 or 35, when one person can make you happy and treat you well does it matter if its teen love. To me some adults don’t know what love is, when they find a bf/gf they go crazy. Telling that person you love them and they make you happy when you’ve only been seeing each other for a week. Although teens have the tendency to do the same as well. The word “love” should be said when the two people have been through a lot(like teens in this day and age) or maybe when that person is your sweetheart from a young age(like adults). Just because your older doesn’t mean you have more experience…. It just means you know how to play the game of love. Teens know how to get away with things. We can talk our way to see the person or we can just do it the old fashion way and sneak out just to tell that special person.. “I Love You”. You can’t put a stop to love no matter what you do people will always find a way to get to love. Both teens and adults are similar with love, they both do what they need to keep it and this is can most likely be proven. As teens get older then they’ll understand more and will see things in their love that adults may not see in theirs. But both groups are pretty similar and this is why I believe that teenage love is as real as adult love.
ReplyDeleteNo I really don’t think that teenage love can be just as real as adult love. My reason being is because of the facts I know about teenage and adult love, my personal experience in such situation and also what I recognize from time to time in my surroundings. Many people will say love is simply love and it doesn’t matter where it’s coming from or aiming at. But I think love helps us to feel important, understood and secure. Love is greatly impact on the individuals in the relationship and so it indeed matters where its coming from or aiming at.
ReplyDeleteTeenage love is beginners love and doesn’t contribute much to what love really is. Typically teenagers have shorter love relationships and the reason is quite simple. During the teenage years, teenagers instinctively seek lots of different experiences and try out different things. It’s all part of discovering who they are, what they value, and what they want out of life. Also teenagers love relationships fade away as they get older. To many teenage guys relationships are mainly about physical attraction while teenage girls emphasize closeness as most important - although they don't mind if a potential love interest is cute too. Most teenagers wants to have the best time of their live when they are young and so they inherit the barbaric behaviors from other peers around them. Such behaviors includes lots of dating, partying and romantic sessions.
Adult love on the other hand is completely different - at least adults in their mid age and elderly. These love relationships typically last a life time and that’s because they understand true love and good relationship. They learned to give and receive from one another, reveal honest feelings, and listen and support each other. In healthy, long-term relationships, couples often find that intense passion comes and goes at different times. But they often find solution to their problems and continue their life as it was.
Sometimes, though, a couple loses the closeness and attraction. For adults, relationships can sometimes turn into “empty love”. This means that the closeness and attraction they once felt is gone, and they stay together only because of commitment. This is very rare in teenage relationships and a reason why their relationships often end.
Tyrell Young
"LOVE" :An intense emotional attachment
ReplyDeleteTeenage love can be just as real as adult love because teenagers have a life to live.Teenagers like to party , go out to eat , etc.Teenage love can be very joyful because teenagers are really future grown up's that's going to enlarge the population of grown up's.I think teenage love can be more like adult love because some teenagers are more experience and mature like adults.
I think teenage love is similar to adult love. Most adults find there first love when they are teenagers because that's when people start to catch that love feeling about that person they fell in love with. Teenagers love increase into adult love even thought teenagers party and enjoy them self's .teenagers are the type of people that go out and have fun with more and more teens and find different lovers. Adult love isn't very joyful because adult's have different altercations to deal with , adults don't party as teenagers can .;-)
At some points teenage love is very important which can be limited as in using protecting your self at all times because teenage hormones start to appear more and more and things start to happen.
Another thing is teens are going to SHAKE , ARGUE and make up that's why i feel teenage and adult love is similar because all adults do is make up even if it takes a long time to make up its the LOVE that keeps the relastionship going.
pauline kornegay First of all I have two perspectives teenagers and adults can love the same but then again some of people in my generation is immature and cannot handle real love or they can not stay with one person because they think it’s to long. Some parents do not allow their child to love and they cannot experience the true lovers till they turn adults. Teenagers who have they permission to love but some don’t, but the point I am trying to make is there is two point of views teenagers and adult love can be the same based on the child freedom or the child thoughts meaning if the teenager think being with some one for a long time is bad thing that’s there thoughts. Some teenagers and adults do the same thing as far as ‘intimacy’ some teenagers can not handle love because of the way the men approach the women for example the boys are trying to talk to the girls and they say ‘ayooo’ or they say yo ‘shawty’ or they make noises that’s not the way to talk to a women. The heart breaks are the same as when you’re a teenager or an adult. And another way teenage love can not last is when your tied down by parents and school it kind of hard to do that and keep a boyfriend because they want you to spend time with them. Love is a strong and powerful word for adults and teenagers that’s why many people take so long to say I love you because that word can break a lot of hearts. Life for teenagers is about having fun before you get old and it’s to late not to be tied down by love. Some teenage boys tell the girls they love them just to have sex with them. Many teenagers let the emotions get in front of there logic judgment. some adults may think that teenagers cannot love like they can because they did not live a full life but no one have lived a full life everyone have to make mistakes and learn from them teenage boys that doesn’t know how to talk to young women would not want their mothers of sisters or grandmothers t to be treated that way so they need to learn how to talk to young women
ReplyDeleteIn my opinion, I do believe teenage love is as real as adult love. When there is love between two people that are in a relationship nothing matters. When a person is in love they have a passion for their partner. They want the whole package that comes with love, all of the emotions. The joy, anger, silliness, jealousy, fear, sadness, concern, and more, long as there is mutual respect understanding and communication. The people that start dreaming about that type of relationship are teenagers, so they could live it also. For adults it is superficial that when they feel like they are truly in love with someone they get married. Yeah, that sound like real love but over fifty percent of marriages end in divorce. Having that happen is a waste of money and time for the partners to look for a true love. Now if you ask me I think real love last forever. Teenagers are just as, probably even more capable in having true love as any adult. I actually believe that it is better to find love as a teenager because usually it is about enjoying each other , and living in the moment, instead of looking for a partner that you expect to provide to or the other way around. Many married people that fell in love when they were teenagers are still married. Teenage love is more efficient than adult love because they are not afraid to express their feelings, as adults try to suppress their feelings. If I could determine my future of love I would rather have teenage love, because of all the reasons listed above. Love is love no matter what kind it is or who it is between it is all the same but some are much more appreciated than others. I think love is sacred and when you and your partner find love whether you are a teenager or adult it should be cherished, even if it does not last forever, it is worth everything, and lessons and new discoveries are made about the person that can help them find their real or true teenage or adult love.
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Honestly I think teenage love could never be as real as adult love. Adults have more experience in life and have a better understanding of what love really is. Adults were once teenagers so they know how teenagers feel and they know that its just puppy love. One thing that makes teenage love not as serious is sacrifice. If you really love somebody you will sacrifice anything for that person. If you have your last twenty dollars and you love someone and they have nothing you must be willing to share your last twenty. You got to be willing to be there for your partner. And it has to work that way on both sides of the relationship. You be real committed to a relationship. And that not what teenagers have, commitment. An adult on the other hand knows how to really commit. Another thing it depends on is the two people that are involved maturity level. Most adults are mature and know how to handle situations if they get out of hand. One important thing about teenage love is that you can walk away at any time and it wouldn’t be as bad. Its not the same with adult love. One more thing is that most adult relationships last much longer then teenage relationships. It is rare if you see a teenage relationship that exceeds two years. From what I have seen adult relationships last much longer than that. And adult love is not based only on looks. It also about the personality of the person. A lot teenager’s look for people that pretty or handsome. But adults have been there and they probably learned that it is not all about looks, but it is about the quality of the person. Teenagers have so many things to learn before that could actually know what true love really is. They just don’t have enough life experience to know what the word love really means. Right now they think there in love but when they get older there going to laugh at what they thought was love. When they become adults then they will what love truly is.
ReplyDeleteNo I do not believe teenage love could be just as real as adult love because they are too completely different sets of people at different stages in life. While some teens just want to be in a relationship for sometimes foolish reasons adults take their relationships more seriously and are most likely looking for somebody to settle down with. Some teenagers are constantly in relationships because they are lacking the attention they get from their partner in their life otherwise or because they are looking to have a special bond or friendship with another person. Males in their mid to late teens are usually more interested in physical attractions while most girls are interested in mental relationships. This clash in interests is already setting up for a failing relationship. Teens are also more likely to lose interest in one another after a short period of time unlike adults who would be more willing to commit to long term relationships. Teens are just looking to have fun with each other and build small relationships some of the teens they come across and are attracted to. Adults are more mature and want to find somebody to spend the rest of their life with. Adults have been through the phases of liking several people as a child and they eventually grow out of it and become ready to commit to somebody for a longer period of time than pervious relationships they may have had as a teen. Adults also know what they would like to gain out of a relationship while some teens may not know what they want and just like because they are liked. Teens are usually searching for companionship while adults may be looking for something more advanced and deeper than that like a soul mate that they can grow old with. A relationship between two adults is a different bond than one that could be found between two teens because adults are wiser from previous experience and teens tend to act only on strong emotions and usually don’t give their emotions time to develop to their full potential as an adult would. When teens are in relationships they also feel obligated to tell their partner I love you although sometimes they do mean it other times they only say it because their partner said it first and they do not want to disappoint them by not saying it back. While adults in this situation most likely would not tell their partner they love them if they do not mean it. So based on the things listed as well as others that were not mentioned I do not believe teenage love and adult love should be classified as the same thing.
ReplyDeleteMadiyyah says: yes I believe teenage love can be as real as adult love because people fall in love when their young and still be with that special someone. For people to really love somebody they have to have known them for a long time or love at first sight. Except one thing teenagers are jus full drama and arguments and violence. And adults are more mature then them they look at things from differently then what us teenagers would react. A lot of adult’s first love was when they were younger. My friend shaniece was walking in the street with me and this random boy came up to her and said have you seen my wife. So she said what was she wearing? So the boy described everything that she was wearing and what he thought bout her. And now their young adults with twins named Sharika and Rakia. But one thing bout teenagers they go threw a lot of bad relationships just find that perfect someone. Adults they just look for what they want and need. But to me love is when someone really loves someone because of all the drama they done went threw with them and how they treat them. Love can happen anytime, anyplace, anywhere. Love is a deep feeling that people feel when they think they founded that special someone. Love is a stronger you only say it when you mean not just to say it and play with peoples head. Many teenagers have short relationships because they don’t like the person no more, or they ways changed or they just changed period. Most of the teenage guys are worried bout sex some of them are not. They don’t care about the girls feeling they jus want what they want and then they leave that’s only some boys. Adults would just tell you how they feeling and they won’t hide it. They would just be honest even if it’s going to hurt. And teenagers like to have fun and party, adults really don’t party like teenagers. Adults have more duties in a relationship because people that been together for a long time they have kids. Teenagers know their limits and what they can do and what they can’t do. Every relationship is not good with arguing, physcial, emotion, honest, and trust and if you don’t have these things you don’t have nothing.
ReplyDeleteI do beieve that teenage love is the same as adult love . The reason why is because regardless love is love, it doesnt matter whether your 14 or 32 . You know what the feeling of love is . Teenagers engage in the same activities as adults just wih less stressful situations. When in lov adults want to move in with eachother, get married, etc. While when your a teenager you may have the same amount of love for someone as an adult in that situation. Just because we cannot get married which is said to be the way to show your true love for someone, just because we cannot do that does not mean we are not capable of loving the same way .
ReplyDeleteThe only difference is the level of maturity is all. It has always been females are more emotional then men. Does that change with age ? No it does not. Adults fail to realize most teenagers in our generation are just as mature as them. we may not pay bills, or have figure jobs but we carry ourselves just the same. The only argument that can be made on this topic is the age difference which determines the maturity . which is not 100% factual. it absouletly depends on the person's involved in the relationship, because people may look at an adult relationship and say they act like kids.
So in conclusion teenage love is just as real as adult love. . we are all human and age doesnt determineif i can love someone at the age of 14 as seriously as someone who loves someone else at the age of 30 . .
My name is Adrielle Knowles. I believe that teenage love can be just as strong as adult love. I say that because of “Romeo and Juliet” by William Shakespeare. In “Romeo and Juliet” they fell in love so deeply that they both ended up killing themselves over the simple fact that they were in love. No one wanted to believe the given truth. What Romeo and Juliet had was love even down to the part when they ending up killing themselves. They felt their love was so true they can die for it. I believe love doesn’t have an age limit, it’s a feeling, the deepest emotions you have when you’re in love. You can’t help that you love someone as an. Most people think that teen love is just lust or just for popularity but teens can fall in love. Even though we are young and the elders are wiser it doesn’t change the fact that teens have feeling to. You were teenagers once, so you should remember how it feels. Love is Love no matter how old you are. Give the teen’s credit for once how can we manage what our heart refuses to regard? Anyone that says teenagers cannot fall in love is in my opinion in fact the feelings of love for them can be even more intense as for an adults. This is my brief entry on why I believe that teenage love can just be as strong as adult love.
ReplyDeletei dont think teenage love is not the same as adult love only because of the matter of experience. i think teenage love is the amateur version of it. i mean when our hormones are at our highest wat do we think love is. Some teenagers think its lust some think its other things that does not fully depict the understanding of what luv is. Adult love is based purely on experience and maturity. Once u become an adult u wouldve experince all different type of relationships and hardships during that time. there are those who found teenage love and later blossed into adult love but there are those people who still wish they had a second chance so they could atleast lved before they settled being tied down to once person from 14 to 80 might be challenging but it an sometime be worth it in many ways. We do hve to give some people credit for ther share in the teenage love thing because if it wasnt for them then who would we believe in and who could we look up to. so teenage luv is amateur but tru and adult love is beautiful but acheived
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Do we know the mean of love? And how do you know you’re in love?? Is question we should ask? The is do I believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love? well love is a strong emotion affection,that you have toward your man/ women
ReplyDeleteTo me teenage love is base the same as adult because we all feel the same thing one only thing some teenage don’t worry about one
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ReplyDeleteLet me tell you something’s about what I have made hypothesis about teenage love. Teenage love can be just as real as adult love but first you have to know what love is? But quite nobody knows as my self I don’t know but as far of what I haven’t been through I could say seeing and hearing about it is not so good. You go through break ups, crying, not focus, you do a lot of things to get rid of or gain love. The benefits of you and a partner talking or even friendship it depends on how well you know the partner or your relationship to the person. Most people understand love in their teens and fall in love for first time in teenage life. It’s not easy to say you and partners is or are in love, people make mistakes and will be forgiving for them but most people don’t. I’m not saying you have to fall in love with a friend or partner but it could be family. My mother always told me “life without love is no life at all”. Now love it is vital it could be expressed May different ways. Teenage love can also be described as getting involved emotionally with a person or more. But what’s love got to do with it? Its how you personally feel if you ready to say you love a person say it you might look back in the future and say aye did I love that person? Hmm so why did it lead to this why do things fall apart is it purposely or accidentally? But I don’t know what love is nobody does but I’m willing to listen if someone is telling me the experiences.
Marvin Clarke
ReplyDeleteNo I don’t think teenage love is real as adult love because some teens take the word “Love” and throw it around like it is a joke but adults would do the same but feel guilt about doing it. Teens don’t really understand what is love and when they catch a feeling they never felt before when their in a relationship they would call that love. Love is strong emotion that a boy, girl, man and woman feel when they have a strong connection with their partner, if you have this in your relationship then you can say that you’re in love. Some teens would play with their partner’s emotions, for example: A boy would talk up a girl and get to date her then the boy gets to know something about the girl that he think they have in common then after and week or two the boy would say he love her and she gets excited but not knowing that the boy does not mean it but when she find out that he did not really love her she will feel heart broken, a boy should not say he love a girl unless he means it because mix the girls emotions and might not let the girl trust any boy when they say that they really love her. Some adults understand what love is and cares about their partners feelings so they would no do something like that. If you don’t have a strong connection with your partner or feel a strong way for your partner then you’re not in love you just think you are. You have to take sometime before you say that you love him/ her because he/she will think that you’re getting serious to fast and people know they would not want that. Some teens expect when you say you love them that you can’t change your mind when you and your partner brake up, if you brake up with on you love try to fight for her/he back if that don’t work move on because its not worth it. So to end this I say that No I don’t think adult love is as real as teen love and that people should stay true to their partner and do say “ I love you” to someone unless it’s the true your speaking.
Do you believe that teenage love can be just as real as adult love? Why/why not?
ReplyDeleteCould teenage love really can be like adults love? Maybe. I think teenage love is probably difficult and hurtful during this time because if any teenage girl/boy tryna find love and they found one but not really sure about them and the boy plays the girl its gonna be hurtful for the girl. They will be heartbroken and they will never will be unheartbroken. To have a real teeanage love a girl/boy should find the right person to love and have a relationship with them and see how it turns out. If it turns out good that mean that's the one for you.
Adult's love is almost the same as the teenage love but different. Adult love is you go and find a person you love, see how your relaionship go, and get married and have kids. But mostly some adult's don't be doing that. They just find a women, just like them, and that's about it. And also adults be break up because over an arguement or if they cheating on them just like teenage love. But mostly some teenage be doing that during these times of life but they don't really know what they missing upon themselves.
If the adult show the teenage the right way of life and find love it wouldn't be happening. If the adult don't show the teenage the right things to find love and to have the right girl to be with they won't be fine. But I believe that teenage love can be just as real as an adult's love because the adult went through the same stage as them during there life and time period.
i do belive that teen love is real as adult love . because some teens and adult be in love but some dont want to be in love with you or say that" i love you" but dont meant it at all .also if the boy said it over with you and go out with other girl and that hurt yourself . some adult go through with some heartbreak . but some adult talk about there problems with the person they go out with .or they fix their problems with that person. teen love & and adult love are same because some teen find love and end with a break up as like adult do the same .
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